Hi everyone, i'm a 15 year old male, and I
need to get a few things straight...
I would have posted this in the teen
pregnency board, however it appeared to be
cluttered with alot of irrelavent junk, so
I thought this board would better serve my
purpouse.
I really just need to get some questions
answered, any help is greatly
appreciated.
Its a pretty long story, so i'll try to
spare everyone the pointless details.
Me and my girlfriend (16) had been
sexually active for quite some time.
She was on birth control and we used
condoms religiously, however we had a
small scare when a condom broke on us.
One or two weeks later she informed me
that she was running late on her period,
then after she was a week late I purchased
a two pack of over the counter pregnency
tests. She took them within two hours
of each other, and both yeilded positive
results, although I never saw the tests, I
just took her word for it.
A few days later I told my dad about it,
we have a pretty good relationship, and I
expected it to be ok, and it was - at
first. But then a few days after I
told him he abruptly decided I had to go
back to live with my mother who lives
relatively far away. The next day I
was on the bus heading that way, then when
I arrived my mother informed me that she
had called my girlfriends mom, who had
given her another test, which came out
negative.
So basicaly, I just need to know if this
is even possible.
I know its highly unlikely, but ive done a
bit of research, and I theorize that it
could have been possible if she had gotten
pregnent, then abosorbed the embryo pretty
early on, in which case the false positive
results may have been the result of some
elavated hormones that were lingering
around...
Shes a very insecure person, and I could
see her pretending to be pregnent to lock
me into a relationship with her, then
brining up the negative results once
things start to go wrong - however, in the
8 months ive dated her ive never caught
her in a lie, so i'd like to have definite
proof before I accuse her of anything.
Anyhow, thanks to anyone whos bothered to
read this mess of drama
all opinions are welcome and appreciated.
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-26-06 18:52pm
If she was on birth control pills, the
chances of her getting pregnant were very
low.
A lot of times, women say they are
pregnant when they aren't. Whether it be
for attention or to hold onto someone, I
don't know.
You can accuse her of anything you want,
but i'll be willing to bet she'll deny it
and claim she 'miscarried'. Again, a lot
of girls do this. I'm not saying she did
this to you, or that she lied. However it
is far more common than you may think. On
ehealth alone there are multiple fakers
and liars that come and make false claims
about pregnancy. Why people do this is a
mystery. Yet it happens all the time.
You should let this all go. I understand
it really affected your life, but at this
point it is past. There is no pregnancy
(or baby) and you have your entire life
ahead of you.
I hope you find peace with all this. Good
luck.
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Ughster
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 May 2006 Posts: 2 Location: Texas
Posted: 05-26-06 19:42pm
Thanks for the help, I agree with you for
the most part, I understand that there is
a good chance she has lied.... The only
reason I want to bring it up is because
shes been blaiming me for leaving, and I
think its really her fault....
