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jknight

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Think I Have Bad News Commin My Way Again
Posted: 05-27-06 02:21am

I think I am at the beginning of my 3 miscarriage.....Cry: I started have lower back pains yesterday....And off and on today then I noticed when I got home from work that my breasts were not very tender anymore......I dont know what to do this will be my third miscarriage in a year and a half

anyhow ty you for listening and I pray that I am wrong......But I dont think I am

jenn
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 05-27-06 02:53am

I'm sorry honey, I hope everythings okay =(
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advicegirl2005

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Posted: 05-27-06 13:49pm

Hey jenn.

How are you feeling today? I hope your ok. I really hope this isnt your 3rd miscaridge and your just experiencing pregnacy pains. I wish you luck and I hope your ok. Keep us updated. X
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jknight

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Posted: 05-27-06 14:14pm

Ty all for your support.......I still dotn have any breast pain.....But I dont have any pain in my stomach either.....I do have the lower back pain but it seems to go away when I am standing ( only buggs me when I am sitting).......So as long as there is no bleeding I guess there is nothing I can really do......The only thing I am worried about is what they call a missed miscarriage, where you lose the baby but there is no bleeding

jenn
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DylanJacob

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Posted: 05-27-06 14:22pm

Well hopefully it will all be ok...

Hugs and good just jenn
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jknight

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Posted: 05-27-06 14:49pm

Ty again I will just have to wait and see I guess....My biggest problem right now is the fact that I have no breast tenderness and my nipples are dark any more.....I dont really knwo that that means I have anything to worry about......But I cant help but worry cry:(

jenn
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jknight

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Posted: 05-28-06 03:06am

I did another hpt test today to make sure that iw as not having a missed abortion....(missed miscarriage) the test came back positive almost as soon as I peed on it (sorry to be so blunt) so I guess I can be hope full and not worry too much, ty you all for you support...And I will keep you posted

jenn
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 05-28-06 06:46am

I know it's hard because you've miscarried before, but try not to stress too much about what symptoms you are having or not having. Stressing too much can cause a miscarriage.
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kissofangel20

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Posted: 05-28-06 08:07am

I am very very sorry ......I hope it turns out to be a happy ending this time and I pray that it does. I just want to add..( and i'm bot trying to be mean or disrespectful in any way) ....That heaven forbid it does happen but if it does...Please take some time and let your body and mind have a chance to heal before trying again.......Being preg. And losing them in such a short time frame has got to be wreaking not only your heart and soul but your body as well. Just take a year off of trying to get preg. Let yourself heal....And then try again. Again I hope you don't lose this baby I do so hope you and the baby are well and healthy. My prayers will be with you.
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El

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How Far Along?
Posted: 05-28-06 19:53pm

How pregnant are you?
Aches and pains come and go throughout pregnancy- things are particularly erratic during the first trimester.
Hormone levels are just all over the place.
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alexa84

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Posted: 05-28-06 21:21pm

I understand what your going through. I had a missed miscarriage at 12 1/2 weeks. (pregnant again but terrified of m/c ing again) im not trying to scare you but I learned that when you lose all your pregnancy symptoms, thats when its likely you had a missed m/c. My doc told me that after I had to have a d/c. If I was in you situation, I would go to da doc. But until then try not to stress out cuz if the baby is okay and your stressing, that means alot of stress is put up on your baby also.

Take care and best of luck,

alexa
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 05-28-06 22:01pm

I have to disagree with the one about the pregnancy symptoms disappearing just because during my first trimester I had a few days here and there without any symptoms and I didn't miscarry the baby (even though at some points I was sure that I was going to) that's sleeping in a cradle in my bedroom right now. I'm not saying that that isn't possible because i'm sure in some instances it is true. And being worried about it is okay because it's always better to be safe than sorry. Just don't worry too much because the stress is bad for you. But didn't you say your pregnancy test came back positive again? That's great!! Definitely see a doctor anyway just to be sure everything is progressing normally and to put your mind at ease.
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El

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Posted: 05-28-06 22:10pm

That's exactly what I was trying to say- things come and go. If you had'nt had those bad experiences, you probably would'nt even notice.
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jknight

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Posted: 05-29-06 14:57pm

Ty all your response has be great I am not really sure how far along I am I could be anywhere from 4 1/2 weeks to 10 1/2 weeks not really sure, I have my first prenatal on june 14th 16 days to go yeah and I am feeling ok.....I will keep you posted on how things are going again ty all for you insite it has helped to ease my mind a little.....Another question though I have been having pains in my groin area and I was just wondering if this was normal or should I be concerned

jenn
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Posted: 05-29-06 15:03pm

I had a mc and had a d&c at 11 weeks . The fetus was actually dead for weeks and I was expelling them. Sometimes not seeing blood or cramping doesnt mean your not miscarrying but I did not have symptoms from one day to the next which should have been a great indication. I hope this one works out for you! Good luck.
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Mommie Dearest

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Re: Think I Have Bad News Commin My Way Again
Posted: 05-30-06 15:56pm

jknight wrote:
i think I am at the beginning of my 3 miscarriage.....Cry: I started have lower back pains yesterday....And off and on today then I noticed when I got home from work that my breasts were not very tender anymore......I dont know what to do this will be my third miscarriage in a year and a half

anyhow ty you for listening and I pray that I am wrong......But I dont think I am

jenn


{sigh} I know how you feel, and if you are I am really very, very sorry. However, you should try to fin dout for sure before you jump to any conclusions. Don't work yourself up unnecessary. My prayers go with you. Keep me posted
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Posted: 05-30-06 18:40pm

Jenn, since you are high risk, why aren't they seeing you sooner??

Mommy dearest , how are you doiing? Long time no see.
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jknight

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Posted: 05-31-06 02:36am

I guess at this point they dont think that I am high risk the chances of me miscarring again really are not that high, my first m/c was a blighened ovum, so I am nto really srue if they consider that to be a problem, and my dr is on vacation and he comes back on teh 12 and my first appt have to be for at leat a 1/2 hour so that was the first one he had, but thanks for asking

jenn
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Mommie Dearest

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Posted: 05-31-06 07:04am

lil_blaze2004 wrote:
jenn, since you are high risk, why aren't they seeing you sooner??

Mommy dearest , how are you doiing? Long time no see.



hello, I am doing really well. Just that I started a new job in january I have been really busy. Nice to see that I am remembered :-) how are you doing?? Hope that all is well with you too.
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Mommie Dearest

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Posted: 05-31-06 07:07am

jknight wrote:
i guess at this point they dont think that I am high risk the chances of me miscarring again really are not that high, my first m/c was a blighened ovum, so I am nto really srue if they consider that to be a problem, and my dr is on vacation and he comes back on teh 12 and my first appt have to be for at leat a 1/2 hour so that was the first one he had, but thanks for asking

jenn



like I said before, just keep us posted and let us know how you are doing ok?? Hang in there and take care and just prayer. Always remember: the willof god will never take you to a place where the grace of god cannot protect you.
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