I am 18 years old and I am pregnant. I
have been in a love triangle thing for a
while now and I am not sure what to do.
Ok, me and my fiance broke up a few months
back and I began dating a friend of mine.
We had sex like april 22, 2006. Anyway
we broke up like a week later and me and
my ex-fiance had sex. I missed my period
at the beginning of may and I just
recently found out that I was pregant. I
guess it could be either one of theirs???.
Anyway, the friend of mine moved just a
week or so ago out of state, he called me
today and was telling me about a new
girlfriend and so I didn't bother to tell
him that I am pregnant because me and him
don't get along anymore. My ex-fiance,
me and him still talk on a regular basis
but we are not exactly back together and
he has always told me if I got pregnant
before marriage that he wants me to have
an abortion. I don't know what to do or
who to tell what???
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andrea robin
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2006 Posts: 1 Location: texas
Re: All Alone In This Whatever You Do, Donot Get An Abortion Posted: 05-27-06 04:17am
What ever you do, donot get your child
aborted. You will regret that decision
for the rest of your life. No matter who
the father is, this is a part of you. My
sister-in law is three weeks pregnant and
she saw her childs heartbeat. Are your
parents understanding? I had a child out
of wedlock twenty-three years ago and I
have no regrets. Please keep your child.
Im from texas too maybe I can help
kezia333
wrote:
i am 18 years old and I am
pregnant. I have been in a love
triangle thing for a while now and I am
not sure what to do.
Ok, me and my fiance broke up a few months
back and I began dating a friend of mine.
We had sex like april 22, 2006.
Anyway we broke up like a week later and
me and my ex-fiance had sex. I missed
my period at the beginning of may and I
just recently found out that I was
pregant. I guess it could be either one
of theirs???. Anyway, the friend of
mine moved just a week or so ago out of
state, he called me today and was telling
me about a new girlfriend and so I didn't
bother to tell him that I am pregnant
because me and him don't get along
anymore. My ex-fiance, me and him still
talk on a regular basis but we are not
exactly back together and he has always
told me if I got pregnant before marriage
that he wants me to have an abortion. I
don't know what to do or who to tell
what???
:(
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pixie2007
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2006 Posts: 36 Location: Tampa
Posted: 08-15-06 22:42pm
You need to do what is best for you. I
would not advise you to have an abortion
though because it can effect your
emotions for a long time. Trust me, I
know.....I'm pregnant and completely
ecstatic about it! I'm totally a lone in
this, but I just know this is the right
thing to do. Once you start feeling the
kicks you wonder how you could even pose
the question of abortion. Don't let a
guy tell you what you need to do.
Unfortunately, we get ourselves into this,
so it is up to us to make a moral
decision. Do what your heart tells you
to do!
