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Q: Ohhh Jesus!!
asked by: Eyes Wide Shut on May 30th, 2006
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Ok, well i've been on the patch for 3 weeks now.(sunday started my 4th week) sunday I took off my patch to let my period come down.
Now, me and my fiance' have been having unprotected sex since the 1st day of wearing the patch. He didn't cum inside of me, but i'm quite aware of pre-cum.

It's been 2 days and still no period!!!! What the f*ck!?!?!?!??! I can't be pregnant again. I don't think yall understand!!!!! Imma wait another couple of days and if nothing...Imma have to take a test!!!!

Holy .Mary!!! What am I going to do?!! My baby just made 5 weeks yesterday!!!!!! How trashy does that make me look!?!?!?

Sarah
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n0rthernbelle
replied on May 30th, 2006
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Relax! Your period's cycle is all out of whack. Check the patch directions and make sure you took it absolutely correctly. Call your doc if you're not sure.
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Emma2
replied on May 30th, 2006
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It wouldnt make you look trashy if you were. Its a blessing but I can understand where your coming from especially with a new born. Take a test and rule out pregnancy before putting the pacth back on. But its true your cycles need some time to readjust and get back on track . Dont stress!
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on May 30th, 2006
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Who? Me? Stressed??
Lol...Thanks yall for the responses! I know it wouldn't be trashy to people who understand the circumstances of it, but from a stranger outside point of view, it's trashy! Hahaha...I honestly could care less about others negative opinions of me, but being stared at it one of my pet peeves and I tend to get mighty pissed. And I can't start beating people up pregnant and holding an infant!! God...The sight scares me!!

I think if nothing happens within the next couple of days i'll test. I'm scared that if I call my .Dr he'll start assuming things!!! And start wondering if i'm all there mentally!


I'm in one of the hugest prediciments of my life!!!!!!!!!!!!
But stressing from this is the last thing on my mind...I'm stressed enough with a 5 week old!!!

Sarah
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Melissa_20
replied on May 30th, 2006
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Geez ladies,where is this hostility coming from?I am sensing you two don't like each other hmmmmm?
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on May 30th, 2006
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Sandra, I didn't even see your thread!! Well I took the patch off because the 4th week is supposed to be patchless. I was on the patch before and it was great...Buttt I don't remember how long I waited before I startd having sex.

You're right, the thing that scares me the most is that I did just have a baby and know that i'm extreemely fertile!!

I'm just keeping my fingers crossed!!! I wouldn't be angry if I got pregnant again...Just scared. I don't know if I can put my body through another drug free labor sooooo soon!!! My brain still remembers what it felt like!!!

Sarah
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Melissa_20
replied on May 30th, 2006
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babymajic0506 wrote:

you're right, the thing that scares me the most is that I did just have a baby and know that i'm extreemely fertile!!


sarah,definetly not being rude,but why aren't you using a condom when you have sex since your so fertile after having a child?
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HcoBrunette06
replied on May 30th, 2006
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Ribbed?

You'll have to excuse me, I don't know much about them :p
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Melissa_20
replied on May 30th, 2006
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sandralynn wrote:
u know honesty I freakin hate condoms.. They make it to where u cant hardly feel anything. And the ribbed ones dont do any good. Rob just stretches the ribs out lol. So we gave up with those.


i know what you mean.I never use a condom with jerrid cause everytime I fond one I like,it hurts him,everytime he likes one I don't like it or it hurts me. . .I don't mind not using one but we can't seem to come to an agreement

terra,ribbed ones have like,. . . .Ribs on them,lol.I don't know.Just like others have little bumps or heat up with your movement or something.It just enhances pleasure,well its suppose to anyway,lol
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on May 30th, 2006
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Lol...Need I say anymore about the condom issue??

I know i'm fertile, but i'm on the patch. Yea I had sex the 1st day of wearing the patch, but I guess having faith in that alone is stupid. Actually I know it's stupid. God, i'm stupid! And we did it like 2 more times after that....But, maybe my period will come down and i'll sigh a hugh sigh of relief!!!

Sarah
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Melissa_20
replied on May 31st, 2006
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sandralynn wrote:
lol my fingers are crossed .Sarah and I pray you bleed vaginally some time soon. :-)

and I pray that its your period and not implantation bleeding! : )
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HcoBrunette06
replied on May 31st, 2006
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Lmao good one!
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linuxChique
replied on May 31st, 2006
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If your baby is only 5 weeks, your body is probably still out of whack from being pregnant, and having just started birth control only makes that worse. I think its a combination of those two things.
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sandyallen
replied on May 31st, 2006
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Just try to relax and enjoy that sweet 5 week baby of yours and let those hormones do their thing, they will anyway, whatever will be will be.
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hopefulmjz
replied on May 31st, 2006
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Sarah, I didn't get my period until my baby was 9 or 10 weeks old, in fact I just finished it last week. She was born march 13th. So pregnancy really does a number on ya!
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lil_blaze2004
replied on May 31st, 2006
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Sarah are you breastfeeding cause it'll take even longer to come. I didn't get my first period till trey was 2 1/2-3 months old and that's after I switched to formula so give yourself some time girl!
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