My Sexually Open Boyfriend Posted: 05-30-06 20:05pm
My boyfriend is extremely sexually open.
I believe that if I am with someone, that
is because we are a we, not everyone else
included. I am completely monogamous as
long as I am bound to that person. In his
past, my boyfriend has had sex in front of
people, in the same room as a family
member, some of the strangest things (to
me). I have told him several times that I
am uncomfortable with the idea of sharing
him with another woman. He doesn't want a
threesome to see two girls get it on, no,
he wants to have sex with two girls (which
seems a bit selfish and insulting to me).
He will not, under any circumstances drop
the subject. He thinks that I will be
more comfortable with my sexuality as our
relationship progresses. The more he
pushes me, the more upset I get. We have
been dating for almost two years now, and
I can't decide what to do. If any of you
have any thoughts, I would love to hear
from you.
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kissofangel20
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 May 2006 Posts: 248 Location: ,
Posted: 05-31-06 06:02am
Well he is indeed an open person and if
that is the life he chooses and you don't
agree or like it then it would be best for
you to find someone who feels the same as
you and let him go and have all the orgies
he wants with someone who likes that kind
of thing. Cause the way he feels about
sex and what you think about it or way to
diff. For there to ever be a middle
ground you can both agree on. I wish you
luck.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 06-02-06 10:29am
kissofangel20
wrote:
well he is indeed an open
person and if that is the life he chooses
and you don't agree or like it then it
would be best for you to find someone who
feels the same as you and let him go and
have all the orgies he wants with someone
who likes that kind of thing. Cause the
way he feels about sex and what you think
about it or way to diff. For there to
ever be a middle ground you can both agree
on. I wish you
luck.
i agree.You have 2 different views on sex
and one thing he probably isn't thinking
about is .S.T.D's. . .You don't want to
catch that!
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Moo
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Joined: 20 Feb 2006 Posts: 1048 Location: London
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Posted: 06-02-06 10:56am
I have to agree with the others. This man
is being extremely selfish and clearly
doesn't have much respect for you or he'd
appreciate that you're not comfortable
having an open relationship. I think it's
impossible for such a relationship to work
- if he doesn't want to be monogamous then
he wont, with or without your
permission.
You should be with someone who respects
you and realises that you're not going to
share your man.
