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BReath
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Had 3 Periods And Negative Test..please Help
Posted: 05-31-06 09:49am
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My girlfriend has had 3 periods since
we've had sex, not had sex again since the
first time on march 3rd..Her 4th period
since then is due soon..June 5th I
believe
the reasons why I am still worried is
she has:
*lower back pain
*breasts have gotten a little bigger
*her normal cramps a week before she
starts are not as strong..These haven't
happened, just started
please help me! I cannot handle this
anymore!
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Rhemora
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Posted: 05-31-06 09:55am
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Ok im guessing your worried shes pregnant,
lower back pain shouldnt start until her
spine starts curving to hold the weight of
the baby so it could just be normal back
pain, since this is a teen pregnancy forum
im guessing shes a teen and therefore her
breasts should be growing anyway and ive
heard the cramps can start early sometimes
from overexertion and stuff and there
usually varying in strength but I would
get her to do a pregnancy test just in
case
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Zanny
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Posted: 05-31-06 09:56am
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Ok well first of all, try not to worry too
much.. The changes in her body could just
be normal, like her breasts getting
bigger.. It's not necessarily a sign of
pregnancy. If she has taken a test and it
was negative she probably isn't pregnant,
but maybe she should do another one just
to put your minds at rest.
Good luck, i'm sure everything will be
fine.
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BReath
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Posted: 05-31-06 10:00am
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I am just worried, and your replies are
quite comforting
i just..I don't know..Rule out any
possibility that breasts enlarging is just
a normal thing
she's 16..Just doesn't seem common for her
breasts to get bigger..
Also..Reading other posts about how..It's
common for girls to have up to 5 periods
and still be pregnant
her periods have been normal periods, and
she doesn't think she is, but I still
think so..
Is there anything I can do to ease my
mind?
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Zanny
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Posted: 05-31-06 10:06am
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Girls' breasts can keep growing until they
are well into their twenties, it's not
uncommon for changes like that to happen
at her age.
Some women do have periods during
pregnancy, but it's more likely not to
have that many, or for them to be
lighter/shorter.. Sometimes there is
bleeding at the beginning of the pregnancy
and then it stops. If her periods are
normal then it's more likely that she
isn't pregnant.
The only way you can ease your mind is by
her taking another pregnancy test..
They're very effective, so if it's another
negative, then it's highly unlikely she's
pregnant.
Hope everything goes well x x x x
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BReath
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Posted: 05-31-06 10:39am
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Your answers have been so helpful, and
comforting
one more question, do you think my
girlfriend could have ran track for these
3 months, and excelled, with no pain?
Or would that have been inpossible with
her being 3 months pregnant
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-31-06 10:40am
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I think you should take a chill pill.I
doubt your girl is pregnant.She has no
signs of it.The only signs you do have is
her body changing but its called puberty.
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BReath
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Posted: 05-31-06 10:43am
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Also, her pants are even looser, sounds
like quite the opposite from signs of
pregnancy..But maybe..
Just seems like she would gain weight if
she was ya know?
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-31-06 10:55am
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Your just over worried about it and there
really is nothing to be worried about.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 05-31-06 11:42am
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Luv, I think that you need to stop having
sex. I really don't think that you are
ready for it right now.
Did you use protection at all? If you
didn't I would really like to encurage you
from here on out to use it
.E.V.E.R.Y.T.I.M.E.
I would have to say that if your
girlfriend has been having her period
since march then no, i'd have to day that
she isn't preggers. The fact that she
runs track could help her lower back to
hurt after a good run. I remember
running track and later my back would
hurt.
If you are really worried about your
girlfriend being preggers have her take
another test and if you aren't satisfied
after that take her to the health
department and have her take a blood test
and that should put your mind at ease.
If it doesn't there isn't much hope for
you other than keeping it tucked away and
not having sex again until you are ready
to have a baby.
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BReath
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Posted: 05-31-06 12:30pm
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Thank you all so much, what I would do
without this I don't know..
Sunflower, I agree, I am not ready for it
yet, and we only had sex once with a
condom, and we've made the decision to not
have sex until I am ready...
Thanks again.. :d
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linuxChique
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Posted: 05-31-06 12:34pm
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wrote: | | also..Reading other posts
about how..It's common for girls to have
up to 5 periods and still be
pregnant |
absolutely not! Its not common at all.
Possible, but not common in the least.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 05-31-06 12:57pm
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I am glad to see that you have chosen to
wait. Thats good.
If the condom didn't break or come off
during sex I highly doubt that your
girlfriend is pregnant.
So just lighten up a little bit and have a
little fun with your gal, I don't mean
sex, I mean movies and dinner and
such....You are too high strung and you
need to relax a little.
Be good.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-31-06 14:01pm
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wrote: | thank you all so much, what
I would do without this I don't know..
Sunflower, I agree, I am not ready for it
yet, and we only had sex once with a
condom, and we've made the decision to not
have sex until I am ready...
Thanks again..
:d |
wow,your the first person someone on here
has gotten through to. I'm happy about
your decision and like sunflower
said,relax and have some fun,sex is a lot
of resposibility you don't need yet!
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BReath
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Posted: 05-31-06 14:51pm
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It's just not worth it really..
One orgasm for 3 months of worrying?
I think not
and besides, there are many ways to have
fun, or have orgasms for that matter, and
this doesn't have to be the only one
i honestly think I can wait until I am
financially ready, or even married
thanks again, you do great work
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-31-06 14:53pm
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Well i'm proud of you! Go jerk off
instead of having sex! : )
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Zanny
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Posted: 05-31-06 14:54pm
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Indeed, I couldn't agree more! It's a
much safer form of pleasure.. I should
remember that in future.. =p
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BReath
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Posted: 05-31-06 15:07pm
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Was talking about blow jobs but ok ;)
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 05-31-06 15:09pm
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wrote: | | well i'm proud of you! Go
jerk off instead of having sex! :
) |
couldnt' have put it better myself. Of
course the first time you experiance the
orgasam with another person just makes
jerking off less fun. (or so ive been
told)
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 05-31-06 15:21pm
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wrote: | | was talking about blow jobs
but ok ;) |
well that too
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