Miscarriage In the Fourties Posted: 05-31-06 10:28am
I am 45 and going through a miscarriage
right now I go back for second blood work
for the beta tomorrow, I married a man 10
years younger than me and he is great !!!
He is so sad this is happening and I am
not, this is bad !! I have aleady had 5
children when I was young and my oldest is
26 and youngest is 14. I was more scared
when I found out I was pregnant than I am
bleeding ( is this crazy?) I cant see
being 60 with a young teen or the fairness
in it. Tubes will be tied and I wont let
my self go through this again the mental
part is to over whelming. Can you blame
me ???
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-31-06 10:37am
No; can't blame you at all :)
although........ Why did you post this on
the abortion forum?
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 05-31-06 15:56pm
No, I understand to a point what you are
going through, it is rough! Now it is
time for you to start thinking about being
a .Grandmother and menopause and all of
that fun stuff. After having 5 kids,
that is plenty, 2 was enogh for me plus
m/c plus need be medical abortions. Does
your hubby want kids or is it that he is
hurting because you are going through a
m/c. You might want to sit down and talk
to him and let him know how you feel.
I wish you the best!
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trina1
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Joined: 07 Jun 2005 Posts: 528 Location: , Lost in Oz.
Re: Miscarriage In the Fourties Posted: 05-31-06 17:30pm
blueydotson
wrote:
i am 45 and going through a
miscarriage right now I go back for second
blood work for the beta tomorrow, I
married a man 10 years younger than me and
he is great !!! He is so sad this is
happening and I am not, this is bad !! I
have aleady had 5 children when I was
young and my oldest is 26 and youngest is
14. I was more scared when I found out I
was pregnant than I am bleeding ( is this
crazy?) I cant see being 60 with a young
teen or the fairness in it. Tubes will
be tied and I wont let my self go through
this again the mental part is to over
whelming. Can you blame me
???