I Don't Know What to Do About My Best Mate?! Posted: 06-01-06 18:20pm
Hiya.
Im not sure if I put this in the right
post. Im 19. I dont have a boyfriend or
anything at the moment. I have a best
mate of 6 yrs. She lives 3 hours away
though and we meet up every few months,
well when we can really. Shes 20. She
means everything to me, shes jsut like a
sister. Well I had feelings for her when
I was around 17 and so did she but we
blocked them out because we didnt want it
to ruin our friendship.
Well recently I have been getting these
feelings back. I miss her when I dont
speak to her or see her. We meet on the
internet every night unless something
comes up. We speak on the phone everyday
for normally a hour but can be more or
sometimes less. She went into hospital
the other day and I was worried sick
because no one told me until the next day.
Ever since then my feelings have got
stronger. She lives with her mother and
nan. They had a huge fight today (her and
her nan) and said some things that
properly hurt each other. But this really
annoyed me what her nan said to her. Made
me mad, her nan is attention seeker but
she gets worse then shes ok and gets worse
again, changes every day. Anyway, today I
jsut wanted to be with her, make her feel
better and do something so we can both be
happy.
We arranged to get a job and a flat
together because she wants to get away
from her nan and I wanna get away from my
family (they are a big issue for me).
Anway we havent done anything yet about
it.
Does anyone know what I can do? This is
drivin me crazy. I love her but I dunno
what I feel. I feel a lot of things.
What can I do to make it all go away? I
dont wnana ruin our friendship because its
very strong.
Please reply soon and I appreciate it.
Thanks
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Galaxy
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Posted: 02-17-08 13:11pm
So sorry no one replied to this at the
time. I wonder what happened between you
and if you finally got that flat together
- and more? Do post again and tell us!
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homerx
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Posted: 02-18-08 17:46pm
Yes, I am sorry I didn't see it before
either....update???