Trying to Figure Stuff Out Posted: 06-05-06 15:13pm
Okay, so I have been married to my husband
for a little over a year now. We have
been together for about 4 years and he has
primary custody of his 4 year old son from
a past relationship. So anyway, i've
been feeling so confused for the past few
months...I don't feel like i'm where i'm
supposed to be. So I finally got the
nerve last night to talk to him about it.
I just really feel like I need some time
to figure out exactly what I want. It
would be best to do now than wait 20 years
or however long. He is now in stage 3 of
the grief process...1. Denial, 2. Anger,
3. Bargaining. What im scared of is
stage 4, depression. I dont want to see
him suffer, I still love him. I really am
not trying to hurt him! Anyway, so he
called me a few minutes ago and wants to
still live together so we don't lose our
house, etc.. I would move into the spare
bedroom. I dont know! I dont want him
to lose everything we have worked so hard
for, but I just dont know how well its
going to work being roomies. Now his mom
is putting in his head that im seeing
someone else. He says he doesnt think
that but I can tell he does. Im not
seeing someone else...If I was that low, I
wouldnt have told him how I felt, he would
have just come home to a note! Anyway,
any comments, advice....?
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 07-17-06 14:07pm
I don't know hun.I know you do't want to
lose everything ya'll have but I don't
think living in the same house together
while your trying to figure things out is
going to help you much.Can't you stay with
your mother or something for a while and
continue to give him money to kepp the
household up?How long have you felt like
this?
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