Hi I wondered if any of you could give me
some advise, I caught my boyfriend
cheating on me after 7 years together, he
said it was the one & only time he had
anything like this but I don’t know if
this is the truth, & to top it all it
was with one of my supposed friends now
after 4 months apart he now wants me to
take him back & I don’t know what to
do, can a leopard change his spots?
:twisted:
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sugar5220
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 14
Posted: 06-24-06 20:20pm
I can say from experience that he can
change. But you do need to go with your
gut instinct. Maybe start out with some
dates and feel things out. Good luck!
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 06-24-06 22:19pm
Welcome .Karen6903! I am sorry that we
had to meet under these circumstances! I
have always felt that yes, men can change
but for how long? Do you feel you will
always be able to trust him? Could it
have been that 7 year itch thing and with
your so-called friend, I am sure that had
to hut but it does happen, men and some
women think that the grass is greener on
the other side of the fence. It is
difficult for us to say because we are not
walking in your shoes and we do not know
him, I guess it is like the poster said
before, go with your gut instinct.
I wish you the best with your decision!
We are here for you.
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karen6903
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jun 2006 Posts: 2 Location: Essex
Posted: 06-25-06 17:05pm
Thanks for your help I will take the
comments onboard & make a decision to
where I go from here. 8)
