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Becky
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Bad News
Posted: 06-08-06 08:54am
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This is totally unpregnancy related but
i'm so scared that I need to talk to
someone. A few weeks ago I found a lump
in my breast I went to the doctor and he a
needle biopsy as she said it looked
'suspicious'. He sent off the results
and said not to worry as lots of lumps are
non maligant.
Well I was a nervous wreck so my hubby
organised a last minute flight to maderia
and we kinda forgot about it and had a
lovely time- I came back pregnant!
But now my doctor rang my hubby at work
half an hour ago saying he couldn't get
through to me at home and he needs to see
me first thing tomorrow morning concerning
the results. My hubby asked if it was
good or bad news but he said he couldn't
breach patient confidentiality.
I'm terrified! I'm certain it must be
bad news. We had hoped that it was a
cyst, that the needle would draw out fluid
and it would collapse. When this
happens, you can bet money that's the end
of things. Well, my lump was solid and
we've been sweating out the biopsy
results.
The suspense of waiting until tomorrow is
killing me! :cry:
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 06-08-06 08:57am
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I'm praying for you. ::fingers crossed::
xxx
sarah
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 06-08-06 10:50am
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I'm sorry,that sucks! When I got a breast
check up they said if you have the same
bump on the other boob in the same area ts
ok,but I don't know about the whole hard
thing. . .Eick! Poor girl ,i hope
everything comes out ok!~
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Becky
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Posted: 06-08-06 11:01am
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I checked the oher breast and there's no
lumps there. I know its normal to have a
few lumps that move around inside the
breast but this one was different and the
doctor was concerned enough to take a
sample for tesing. I pray to god its ok.
It couldn't come at a worse time. I'm
bloomin pregnant for gods sake! If there
is a god that is.. Cause at the moment
there is not much to convince me
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-08-06 11:08am
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I'm sorry beckster :( i'll pray for you.
They found a lump on my moms breast too,
but luckily enough she just got it removed
and that was the end of that. I hope your
situation is the same :)
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Becky
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Posted: 06-08-06 11:11am
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So do i. My mother said that its common
to have lumps but it doesn't stop me from
thinking the worst. My hubby has took the
kids to my mil's so I can have a good cry
and come on here to release some anxiety
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 06-08-06 12:17pm
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I really hope its nothing and if it is
they will remove it so no worries! :: )
'don't worry. . .Be happy!'
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michelle1981
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Posted: 06-08-06 12:37pm
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I really hope it's nothing!!! I'll be
thinking 'bout you girl!!! I also just
found a lump in my breast....I see my doc
next friday.
Let us know what happens .Beckster!!!
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 06-08-06 12:41pm
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| beckster06
wrote: | | so do i. My mother said
that its common to have lumps but it
doesn't stop me from thinking the worst.
My hubby has took the kids to my mil's so
I can have a good cry and come on here to
release some
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that's one of the best stress relievers.
Many people don't cry enough. I'm one of
them. When my baby was born and had bad
.Jaundice I was the strong one of the 2 of
us, a week later, I sat in her room and
cried like a baby. God it helped sooo
much.
Does breast cancer run in your family? If
not, than I wouldn't worry tooooo much
about it. Keep your head up love.
Sarah
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Becky
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Posted: 06-08-06 15:18pm
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My grandma had breat cancer and her
grandma.... I never thought about that
til now. Does it really run in families?
I thought that was just a myth?
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 06-08-06 15:35pm
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Hey.. I hope everything goes ok.. Yeah I
know what you mean having a lump scare
you.. I havea lump and when I found out I
was preg my doc cheaked it and its only on
one side too, but he said it could be from
being preg.. Do you know when u go preg..
Cause I wasnt that far when I noticed it.
I noticed the lump b4 I found out I was
preg.. I dont know if cancer truly runs
in family.. Im hoping it dosnt cause in
my family alot of women from my moms side
have had cancer of the overies and I dont
want that
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Emma2
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Posted: 06-08-06 15:38pm
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Hey beckster, yes, unfortunately any
reproductive cancers and breast cancer in
the family put you at a higher risk. I am
so sorry to hear this...But the good news
is they arent the evil kind of lumps.
Also, keep in mind early detection is
crucial. I pray for you and I can
understand your concern ! Good luck
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Becky
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Posted: 06-08-06 15:47pm
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Thanks for all your replies girls. I am
feeling a lil more positive now. Even it
is the dreaded see then hopefully it'll be
caught so early that it'll be fine.
<hugs> xxxxx
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MamiClaudia
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Posted: 06-08-06 15:52pm
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Everything will be okay. And no matter
what happens you are strong enough to make
it thru. I will be praying for you and I
know everything will be okay dont worry
over it and let us know how things go at
the dr tomorow!!
<3cludia
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AlliE_18
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jessie2006
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Posted: 06-08-06 17:50pm
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Hi i'm new here. I'm really sorry to hear
your news and wish you lots of luck for
tomorrow
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