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Sunflower_pie81

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I Hate It When....
Posted: 06-08-06 13:07pm

People refer to me as ya'll or you two or you guys. I really hate that.

I know that I am kinda like 2 people right now but I really hate it when people I work with refer to me as 2 people.

"how are you two doing today?"
"hey ya'll"
"what are you guys eating for lunch today"

hello!!!!! I am not 2 people....Oh and what irks me the most......Is when peole ask if they can touch her......Ummmmmm that is my stomach and my skin.....God just give me a break.

Why do people do that? It's not cute and I don't like it!!!!!!!!!!!


I am having a bad day today.....And just needed to vent....Sorry guys.
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 06-08-06 13:11pm

Aww gen! People use to touch my sisters stomache all the time and she got sooo annoyed! Even strangers would walk up to her.My older sister didn't get touched much but thats cause everyone was scared to,lmao. I wouldn't like it either if someone referred to me as 2 people,ugh I would say something.You should say "i am one person,thanks".Lol
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Emma2

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Posted: 06-08-06 13:12pm

I agree ! It's offensive and intruding. I also hate when this guy in my office asks me when i'll see my bf because hes in another city . Its like none of your damn business.People are nosy and I especially hate when people touch my belly. Mayb im alone in this but I find it an invasion of my space !
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Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 06-08-06 13:17pm

Maybe that is why I dont' like it.....I am not going to really want a whole bunch of people holding her right away after she is born and I won't want a bunch of people just reaching out and touching her.....But I really dont' like the touching my belly thing. It's horrid. Ack.........I am a germaphobe anyway so that might have a lot to do with it.


But baby is kicking my badder as we speak so I have to run potty.


.T.M.I I know. Lol
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 06-08-06 13:24pm

I don't think I would want a bunch of people rubbing my belly either.I would cover it up and run like the wind! Lol
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Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 06-08-06 13:32pm

Ok I am back!!!!

Well, mel I dont' go wandering around my job topless.....Lol only kidding. (i only do that at home. Lol)
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Eyes Wide Shut

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Posted: 06-08-06 13:37pm

As for the yall...I'm from new orleans and we don't say it unless there's more than one person there...I could see how you would hate it if it were just you.

As for the belly...I used to smack hands as they reached towards my belly. Especially if I didn't know you!! I had a couple strangers just right out touch me!!! I didn't even like my mom to touch it.

The only person that I let touch it was my .Fiance because what was inside was his.

Sarah
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Emma2

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Posted: 06-08-06 13:38pm

Wow! Smacking your hands is a great idea. I'm gonna use that one!
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Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 06-08-06 13:44pm

I guess when people refer to me a ya'll, you both, and so forth, it makes me feel like a huge house for 100's of people other than just one little skoot who isn't even here yet.....It just gets on my nerves....But I guess today anything will get on my nerves.

I will have to try the slapping the hand's bit....Maybe it will give these guys a clue.....I normally just grin and bear it....But I still hate it.

God I am in a bad mood today.
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 06-08-06 14:39pm

Better than everyone acting like you no longer exist like they did to me. Everyone was like, "how's baby today?" and "what's baby doing?" "what's baby having for lunch today?" it's like, "baby's not here yet friend but i'm fine!!!" yeah that really ticked me off in that last two months of pregnancy. It was like I was just the carrier cell for the baby. I wasn't really human or anything.... Grrr! I'm ticked just remembering. But I don't know, i'd probably be ticked about the whole twosome thing too. Belly touchers deserve to have their hands smacked, people aren't just going to walk up and rub your belly if you're not preggo so I don't know why they think it's okay when you are....
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DylanJacob

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Posted: 06-08-06 15:09pm

Ha ha I can imagine that... =p
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 06-10-06 18:39pm

So can I :lol:
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ThriftyGal

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Posted: 06-10-06 18:52pm

I'm not showing much yet but i'm getting round and you can just tell i've gotten a bit bigger and my one friend will be like "show chris your belly" "show so and so" "show me again" right infront of them and i'm always like, "arrrr, no thanks". The grandmother on the boyfriend's side refers to it as "her babe" which I find most annoying of all... It's not hers, it's mine! And .Erik's, haha, but it's still weird to hear someone else refer to it as "theirs". They mean well so I try to not be mean about it.
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 06-10-06 18:56pm

sandralynn wrote:
lol am I that bad???


hey!! There's nothing wrong with cussing out some friend who doesn't even know you but thinks that its okay to touch you. I would have done the same...
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holliadrienne

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Posted: 06-11-06 14:42pm

Some psycho woman in lowe's bathroom (which could be the most disgusting public bathroom on the planet but when you are preg and have to pee you cannot wait) touched my belly before she washed her hands and I had no time to stop her...I didn't say a word I just stomped off...People are insane.

I feel big enough, I don't need psychotic strangers rubbing up against me to tell me that! :)
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 06-11-06 15:44pm

sandralynn wrote:
tigresacanela24 wrote:
sandralynn wrote:
lol am I that bad???


hey!! There's nothing wrong with cussing out some friend who doesn't even know you but thinks that its okay to touch you. I would have done the same...


i felt kinda bad afterwards.. The lady was all like, offended..


One night recently some old hag at walmart jumped on me and .Rob for not having socks on .Jacob.. I was like "shut up, you old wrinkly bitch." rob grabbed me and put me behind him and was like, that wasnt necessary. And as we were walking away I flipped her the bird and mouthed "medical answer you".


Its not my fault jacob takes his damn socks off literally seconds after I put them on him. He hates having things on his feet.


My fuse gets shorter and shorter every damn day...


**sigh**


don't feel bad, ppl need to mind their own darn business. That's exactly what's wrong with the world. Ppl don't know when to mind their business and when to get involved. Any fool knows how fast kids that age get dirty and/or undressed. If I saw something like that i'd probably joke with the mom and say "he pulled his socks off again, huh? Think you'll ever find them both?"
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Jolie_3110

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Posted: 06-11-06 16:21pm

That happened when I was pregnant at work!! People didnt even ask if they could touch my bump they just did it!! It is really annoying! I remember this one girl I didnt even know and I dont think I ever really spoke to her but whenever she walked past she would shout 'babbbbbbby' rub my stomach and walk off! Jeez I used to get mad!!
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Lalee

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Posted: 06-11-06 18:00pm

Only one person other than my bf has touched my belly, and it was a girl from work. But she didn't just do it. She was asking me about the pregnancy, and I made a comment about how weird it is to have a huge stomach that feels so hard. She asked if she could feel it, and I said yes.

I'm not sure how I would take a total stranger just walking up and rubbing like i'm a buddah or something. Lol. I'd probably move pretty fast, but I think i'd be surprised more than anything. Lol
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AyaMiyaki

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Posted: 06-11-06 18:55pm

I think I would lose my mind if some crusty lady in a bathroom touched me, *especially* if she hadn't washed her hands. I would have started yelling at her that I didn't want her urine on my shirt, thank you very much. That's disgusting. For that matter, who really knows what's on other people's hands? A lot of people out there don't wash their hands, and who knows *what* they've been doing with them! And then they want to put them on you? Sick!
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 06-12-06 22:26pm

Lmao @ sandra.

Man, how did I miss this one?
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