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haliparot

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Joined: 20 Nov 2004
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Location: San Diego, CA United States
I'm On Emotional Breakdown....
Posted: 06-10-06 13:55pm

Hello i'm 18 years old striving to become a doctor planning to enter med school at 21...I'm a smart straight a student with a nice life and a great bf...But now I felt everything was ruined.....Was diagnosed to have hsv-1..Simply speaking I have oral herpes...And i'm on my first outbreak..My whole mouth, tongue, and gums are so sore that eating feels like hell to me..I already went to the doctor and got my prescription yesterday he prescribed acyclovir but I stil don't know when will I be better..I am always crying..Always..Because i'm a good person...So good that I never go to public parties...And I don't know anybody that I got this from...I never kissed anybody but my bf my dad and mom for the last well I see 3 months...All of them don't have it...So who can I possibly have it...Everytime I look into the mirror I felt so ugly, so dirty inside..I don't know what to do...I haven't told my bf yet...And I will be devastated...If our perfect relationship would change because of this....So if anyone can please help and get me through this....This is so hard for me....
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Aubrey_Peyton

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Oct 2005
Posts: 5

Posted: 06-14-06 07:33am

You can get herpes way before your first outbreak, you probably have had it for awhile and just didnt know it. And as your relationship goes its okay when your not having outbreaks and just explain that to him( I know this because my parents have herpes and I share drinks with them and I dont have it) but they say there is a small chance that your can spread it. I dont know though you shouldnt feel ugly or stupid, just go on with life, it will not ruin your career and I say you're heading in a good direction. I would probably be upset too but they havent found a cure yet, so you have to just accept that its not going to go away!(not being rude) dont be irresponsible with it tho, like the one who spread it to you, let your boyfriend know and if he leaves you thats his issue not yours someone will accept the fact that you have it and be with you anyways.!! Good luck
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