Hi, I have posted before, but this time,
ive drank a little bourbon. Lol .
[the truth serium]. I need to tell you a
little about myself...I'm 18, will be 19
in aug., 2nd. I have impregnated a 24
year old woman, though she seems much
younger than that. [about 19] she's
spoiled to death by her family and I love
her to death. She is totally strong
willed and a hard-worker. Keep in mind
our age difference -- she is wonderful,
she would be a good mother, no doubt.
She's ready, but I dont think I am...I
know I could "tough it out", but I am
young and trying to go to college, I also
know that there is more to life than what
is happening in my life now. I am
depressed and cant conciouslly make my own
desicions at this point. How I am able
to tell you all of this -- I dont know!!
[ I am on bourbon (liqour)]. I also have
to tell you I have an iq of an 150, not
that it matters really, but I see that I
have alot of potential and that fact that
I might be a daddy soon really startles
me! I just need a little advice from
those of you who are older and have
experience, it wouls be greatly
appreciated. I am sad, greatly sad, and
I dont like feeling this way!! I really
want to die or leave this country forever
and forever. ::tears:: please help
me!!!!!!! I sometimes want to take my
oown life but I know that god up above
would not like that very much. We are
all equal in his eyes, no matter what our
status is...
I want t his baby...I dont even know if
she is preg. Yet. But I know there is
more to life than what I even think.
Please please help me!! I'm on the verge
of something stupid.
please? ...
-fermin q. Please respond.,
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003 Posts: 309 Location: colorado
Posted: 01-13-04 14:35pm
Hey im ashley I read your post it makes me
feel sad--
people should be happy to be able to have
such a blessing in there life- some
people wait there whole life to have
babies and they cant-- anyways first of
all I think that you need to find out for
sure that she is pregnant -- then go from
there-- I know your young but that doesnt
mean that you cant have a life anymore-
this should be the first step to your new
life-- I really think this isnt about the
pregnancy but more so about you and your
depression please go and talk to someone-
go get help-- if you are depressed now I
dont think having a baby will help-- you
sound like w awonderful guy and I know for
a fact you can do this if you want to -- I
had kids when I was young- twins-- we are
doing just fine great actually my husband
was in college when I had them --he was
scared at first but now -- we wouldnt
change it for the world-- ever-ever--
please please dont give up pm me if you need
to talk k
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 01-13-04 14:37pm
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-02-04 08:50am; edited 1 time in total
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rush752
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2004 Posts: 7 Location: Akron, OH
Posted: 01-14-04 12:38pm
Hi all. Thanks for your advice and
comments. There was one small [!!]
detail I might have left out. My
girlfriend, according to the numerous of
'educated' doctors that she has talked to,
she wont be capable of conceiving a baby
in a few years, give or take a couple of
years. This frightens her to death
because she really wants a baby! Now --
I love her with all my heart, and I want
to give her a baby, you know? The only
thing that really gets me is that there is
no guarantee on our relationship, I dont
want a health questions baby in the
future. I want to make sure that were
are always together, and it would be
easier that way anyway! Financially and
spiritually. An unhappy mother cannot
raise a happy child -- so i've heard, and
it makes much sense, right? everything should
be o.K., I just want to make sure certain
priorities are met to ensure a happy
child, and so christina [that's my gf's
name btw, lol] can be with the baby most
of the time. That's all that I am really
concerned about...God bless.
please? ...
people should be happy to be able to have
such a blessing in there life- some
people wait there whole life to have
babies and they cant-- anyways first of
all I think that you need to find out for
sure that she is pregnant -- then go from
there-- I know your young but that doesnt
mean that you cant have a life anymore-
this should be the first step to your new
life-- I really think this isnt about the
pregnancy but more so about you and your
depression please go and talk to someone-
go get help-- if you are depressed now I
dont think having a baby will help-- you
sound like w awonderful guy and I know for
a fact you can do this if you want to -- I
had kids when I was young- twins-- we are
doing just fine great actually my husband
was in college when I had them --he was
scared at first but now -- we wouldnt
change it for the world-- ever-ever--
please please dont give up 
pm me if you need
to talk k
