I Need Your Opinion Please Posted: 06-13-06 17:11pm
***warning naughty words in here***
i am 15 weeks pregnant. Nothing is wrong
with that at all. It is just the family.
Not my family but my boyfriends family.
He has a step father that is not even his
step father it is his mothers boyfriend.
He grew up with him being the "father
figure". But he was very abusive father
figure even when my boyfriend did nothing
wrong he would come through the door go
right to him and smack him upside the
head. Not very nice. Ever since I have
met my boyfriend I have known about this.
Now for some reason he doesnt like me. I
dont know why. I did nothing to him. I
babysat his daughter, well it was for him
and her mother. But it is still help for
him. Because if it wasnt for me then she
would have been home alone. But he still
doesnt like me. He says very rude and
nasty things about me as well. He calls
me a female part of the body (im really
sorry about the language, but I want to
tell you guys everything) he says stuff
like "if she is old enough to medical
question she is old enough to get a job"
just nasty things like that. He doesnt
treat me with respect at all. He is very
rude to me everytime I am over there. So
I made a choice for him not to see the
baby when the baby is born. I dont want
my child around that. Now me and his
daughter (a 12 years nontheless) are
fighting about her father seeing this
child. I dont want it to happen. Am I
making the right choice? Do you agree
with me? That is all I want is support.
Because my boyfriend just says "yes agree
with you" but doesnt really give me any
support. My mother gives me alot of
support. And does not like the fact that
he is talking to me like that.
But if you could just give me your feed
back on it that would be great.
Thanks guys.
Alyssa
I agree with you all the way, I wouldn't
want my child around a person like that
& to me it sounds like he's only
pissed because you're pregnant.
Do what you feel is right, it's your baby
and it's your job to make the right
choices for it, having your baby around a
person like that will not only hurt it
emotionally, but growing up around that
type of person that hits and talks nasty
language that like in front of your baby
will do nothing but make your child think
thats okay to do, and will do it when it's
older.
I have a potty mouth i'll admit, but I
haven't and will never say cusswords in
front of my son, nor will I ever let him
see me angry or upset.
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dontletitfadeaway
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2006 Posts: 4 Location: maine
Posted: 06-13-06 19:25pm
dalicialynn
wrote:
i agree with you all the
way, I wouldn't want my child around a
person like that & to me it sounds
like he's only pissed because you're
pregnant.
Do what you feel is right, it's your baby
and it's your job to make the right
choices for it, having your baby around a
person like that will not only hurt it
emotionally, but growing up around that
type of person that hits and talks nasty
language that like in front of your baby
will do nothing but make your child think
thats okay to do, and will do it when it's
older.
I have a potty mouth i'll admit, but I
haven't and will never say cusswords in
front of my son, nor will I ever let him
see me angry or
upset.
thank you for the support. Also if my
boyfriends mom or his sister wants to
babyset in a couple of years, I wonder if
I have to worry about him getting mad at
the baby and hitting the baby. So I
really dont want my kid around that. Its
okay I have a potty mouth as well. Im
trying to stop. Lol. Its a little hard.
Thank you very much once again.
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_entomb
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Apr 2006 Posts: 43
Posted: 06-13-06 21:00pm
dalicialynn
wrote:
i agree with you all the
way, I wouldn't want my child around a
person like that & to me it sounds
like he's only pissed because you're
pregnant.
Do what you feel is right, it's your baby
and it's your job to make the right
choices for it, having your baby around a
person like that will not only hurt it
emotionally, but growing up around that
type of person that hits and talks nasty
language that like in front of your baby
will do nothing but make your child think
thats okay to do, and will do it when it's
older.
I have a potty mouth i'll admit, but I
haven't and will never say cusswords in
front of my son, nor will I ever let him
see me angry or
upset.
^^^agreed 100% just follow your motherly
instinct :]
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dontletitfadeaway
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2006 Posts: 4 Location: maine
Posted: 06-13-06 21:31pm
_entomb
wrote:
dalicialynn
wrote:
i agree with you all the
way, I wouldn't want my child around a
person like that & to me it sounds
like he's only pissed because you're
pregnant.
Do what you feel is right, it's your baby
and it's your job to make the right
choices for it, having your baby around a
person like that will not only hurt it
emotionally, but growing up around that
type of person that hits and talks nasty
language that like in front of your baby
will do nothing but make your child think
thats okay to do, and will do it when it's
older.
I have a potty mouth i'll admit, but I
haven't and will never say cusswords in
front of my son, nor will I ever let him
see me angry or
upset.
^^^agreed 100% just follow your motherly
instinct :]
