Lol...I hear ya. I just have a .H.U.G.E phobia of needles. I even refused an .I.V. I allowed the use of oxygen, but that was it.
They let me get in the shower during labour, they let me walk around, squat, sway from side to side. There was noo way that laying in a bed was going to help me with contractions. I felt that the shower was the best, but swaying and squatting sped up the process like you wouldn't believe.
This was my 1st child and I had her with 2 1/2 hours of arriving at the hospital. I pushed for maaybe 30 mins. If that....It was incredible!!
Epidural or not, birth is the most insane event to take place in a person's life!!
Good luck with yalls decisions!!
Sarah