Please help me I dont know what to think
or anything I have so many questions I
guess I always thought that something was
there but never really sure untill now in
looking at porn I descoverd tha ti am
really attractied to femals but not as
much as I am toward my husband...
Please help me someone
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brionnas mama
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 14 Location: USA
Posted: 06-22-06 10:57am
Some one please talk to me I really need
advice I am having a hard time I would
llike to know things this is new to me..
I m me on msn if you have it
keeshia
angel@msn.Com I also have yahoo keesh
iaangel@yahoo.Com or
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AvatarOfUrDreams
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 May 2006 Posts: 67 Location: Chicago
Posted: 07-01-06 22:51pm
Sorry no one replyed before now...
First off, calm down...
Now, if you belive you are bi but want to
stay with your husband then, for the love
of god, do not bring a woman into your
bedroom! It may be the male "dream" to
have two women at once but belive me (and
Dr. Drew of loveline) that a 3sum is
just bringing chaos into your relationship
and it has a high likleyhood of breaking
the two of you up!!!
So if you don't want to divorce then keep
it to pic's and videos!!
Now let me ask you this:
would it make that much of a diff in your
life if you were bi?
Would it "change" who you are either
inside or out?
From what I have read 10% of the
population of the planet is "gay" and when
it comes to men they feel that they need
to "choose sides" and say that they are
one way or the other but when it comes to
women 80% have fanticy's of being with
other women at some point in their
lives!
I guess it depends on how long you have
been having these feelign and if they have
interfeared with your relationships in the
past.
This might just be a phase or it could
just be how you are!~
i think that you should talk to your
husband about this. (if he is not a
homophobe) try to work it so that the two
of you can share some erotica and bring
your relationship to a diff levle by
bringing some excitemnet into your sex
lives!
So I will ask again... If you are or if
you are not will it change anything?
Life needs to be flexable! Just go with
the flow and see where life takes you!!!
If you have any questions or just want to
talk to someone else that is "coming to
terms" with all of this then don't
hesitate to drop me a p.M.
