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AlliE_18
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Okies
Posted: 06-14-06 13:57pm
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Hey,
how many years is best between 2 siblings
you all think??
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 06-14-06 14:05pm
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Why, are you thinking of having another
one?
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Kia
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Becky
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Posted: 06-14-06 14:07pm
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10 months thats my kids age gap
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 06-14-06 14:08pm
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I think when they're young maybe 1-2 years
but when I think of them being older,i
think about 3 years
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Jolie_3110
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Posted: 06-14-06 14:52pm
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I think 3 years but thats just because
thats my childrens age gap!
R u trying for another allie??
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 06-14-06 16:35pm
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I just wondered what you guys thought
about that cos I have no idea. Im not
trying for another but ive been with this
guy a little while and he wants us to have
one already. I think its because hes
older so hes sort of in a rush...Im not
sure tho. 1 is enough at 3 months old
lol...But yeh we'll see what happens, ty
for replies
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 06-14-06 17:16pm
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How old is your man? Is he good with
luke?
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-14-06 17:25pm
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I don't want to turn this into a debate
but I was wondering how long you've been
with this guy. Having a child with
someone is a huge deal and not something
you want to rush into.
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 06-14-06 17:45pm
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Just a few weeks, I know having a baby is
a huge deal, thats why I havent just
agreed to it. Im happy with 1, especially
as hes so young. And kia said your
supposed to wait for a yr before getting
preg again so ur body heals. He is great
with lucas, hes 41 so I think hes in a
rush to have his own child.
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smoothiesRyummy
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Posted: 06-14-06 18:03pm
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| allie_18
wrote: | | just a few weeks, I know
having a baby is a huge deal, thats why I
havent just agreed to it. Im happy with
1, especially as hes so young. And kia
said your supposed to wait for a yr before
getting preg again so ur body heals. He
is great with lucas, hes 41 so I think hes
in a rush to have his own
child. |
what? Why are you with a 41 year old???
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Jolie_3110
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Posted: 06-14-06 18:07pm
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41? Jeez girl how old ru??
Dont rush into another child just coz he
wants one!! Let him help with
lucas
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 06-14-06 18:11pm
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Why not? I'll be with who I like. If you
aint got nothing nice to say then dont
post. Besides its about age gaps between
siblings not ages in relationships.
He does help with lucas jolie, hes really
good with him =) im 17
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Kia
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Posted: 06-14-06 18:28pm
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Allie, hun, that's gonna be a normal
re-action when people hear the vast age
gap.
Honest. We talked about it so you know
what I think and why :)
remember, you call the shots ok
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_entomb
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Posted: 06-14-06 23:58pm
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He could be your father. My moms 39, i'm
15. When I turn 17, she will be 41.
Not to mention thats illegal (at least
where I live.) not to mention more that
its a proven fact that older men only want
sex from younger women. Its also proven
that a lot of accidental (or on purpose
too, I guess) teen pregnancies are with a
young woman and an older man.
But whatever floats your boat. Just be
careful & protect yourself. Older
men do bad stuff to young girls. Read
about it all the time :[
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 06-15-06 01:25am
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lmao are you kidding?
Allie you're like 17...
That's doing it disgusting.
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erinjacob
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Jess
Posted: 06-15-06 04:32am
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I was with my partner 3 months befor I got
pregnant planned pregnancy but hes only 4
years older then me but evry ones
different good luck well be hear when u
say hes left you for another girl
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Kia
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Posted: 06-15-06 05:02am
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There are also a lot of successful
relationships with a huge age gap.
When I was 15 I dated a 38 year old guy -
until he remembered he had a wife
:evil:.
Here in the uk 16 is the age of consent
for a girl and 14 for a boy (unless the
girl is over 16 [ie 17 or more])
i think so long as safe sex is practised,
then what ever makes you happy at the time
is cool.
Allie, knows my thoughts :) and so long as
he doesn't pressure her for more than she
wants to give thats cool.
Anyways look at .Anna-.Nicole .Smith &
.J .Howard .Marshall - he was 63 years her
senior!!!!!!!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 06-15-06 06:06am
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Not to pick on you allie but you need to
be careful with an older guy.Like entomb
said,you could get yourself into a hell of
a mess!
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Jolie_3110
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Joined: 04 Dec 2005
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Location: Essex, England
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Posted: 06-15-06 07:39am
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| allie_18
wrote: | why not? I'll be with who
I like. If you aint got nothing nice to
say then dont post. Besides its about
age gaps between siblings not ages in
relationships.
He does help with lucas jolie, hes really
good with him =) im
17 |
err excuse me, but I dont think I said
anything that was unkind!! Although yes I
think that a 17 yr old girl and a 41yr man
is abit odd. I also think wanting to rush
into having another baby with a man you
have only just met when your only 17 is
abit strange.
If you seriously think there is nothing
wrong with what you are doing then why get
offended so quickly!
I have always been kind to you allie, the
truth is when lucas was born you admitted
it was hard to cope and hard to adjust,
and theres nothing wrong with that. But I
dont understand why you want to have
another one so quickly! Why not get to
know the son you have got first, and maybe
getting to know the future father of your
children alittle bit first might be a
sensible idea!!!!
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