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snowygirl
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Baby Question
Posted: 06-14-06 21:23pm
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Lol I still have many months to go till I
have my baby but im starting to worry
about all these things that can happen. I
was thinking about after I take my newborn
baby home would it be good to lie him/her
on her side to sleep or back? Like which
one is safer, any of u mothers have advice
for me thanks. And when the baby gets
older like few months which sleeping
position would be safe and good?
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erinjacob
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Joined: 04 Apr 2006 Posts: 219 Location: australia
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Jess
Posted: 06-14-06 21:42pm
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They say to put them on there backs but
woith my second when I was in hospital he
would not settle he would scream evry time
I put him on his back the midwife told my
to put him on his tummy it worked an hes
slept like that since the day he was born
hes 10 months now but theyll tell u in
hospital an ull pick it up ull be fine
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-14-06 21:50pm
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What kind of midwives do you see that tell
you to put your baby to sleep on his
stomach? The same ones who said they'll
leave the placenta in you for 2 hours or
more? I suggest finding someone new...
Anyway, their back is the safest and
that's what I plan on doing. Once they
start rolling over the best you can do is
put them down on their backs and I guess
turn them back over if they roll onto
their tummies.
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erinjacob
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Jess
Posted: 06-14-06 21:52pm
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No actualy different midwifes but it
worked for my an I was happy with her
advice
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-14-06 21:53pm
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* babies sleep safer on their backs.
Babies who sleep on their stomachs are
much more likely to die of sids than
babies who sleep on their backs.
* sleep surface matters. Babies who
sleep on or under soft bedding are more
likely to die of sids.
* every sleep time counts. Babies who
usually sleep on their backs but who are
then placed on their stomachs, like for a
nap, are at very high risk for sids. So
it's important for everyone who cares for
your baby to use the back sleep position
for naps and at night.
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erinjacob
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Jess
Posted: 06-14-06 21:57pm
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Im well a wear of that I i do care for my
kids I dont recommend it for every one or
any one but im just sayin it worked for me
an hes 10 months now an hes fine
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matthieusmom
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Posted: 06-14-06 22:04pm
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My son also slept on his tummy. He had
gas alot and sleeping on his tummy helped.
But then again I also done a big no no,
he also slep on he tummy in one of those
boppy's....So it all depends on the child
and the parent.
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El
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Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
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Back Safest
Posted: 06-15-06 00:35am
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Well, thats what they are telling us now
anyway.
I was a stomach sleeper-still am as an
adult- so's my husband-we were born the
same year- he in australia, me on the
other side of the world in ireland-
stomach was said to be safest that year!
(worldwide, apparently!)
our first baby was born prem. She
developed jaundice, after a couple of
days, and had to spend 24 hours under
ultraviolet light, in a humidity crib
thing. We had to turn her every so often,
so that her whole body was exposed to the
light, so she spent half the time on her
tummy- I was worried, but the nurses said
that they always had lots of babies who
slept on their tummies in the special care
nursery.
After the 24 hours was up, it seemed our
duaghter had developed a liking for tummy
sleeping, and wouldn't sleep any other
way.She also would not be wrapped the way
newborns are supposed to like. She'd
struggle and cry. I was freaked she'd
smother.
The nurses assured me that she'd be fine
on her tummy, that even newborns have the
ability turn their heads if they can't
breath.
So a tummy sleeper she became.
My second loved being wraped tightly, but
would only allow us to put her to sleep on
her right side. She would have none of
back-.O.R tummy. She worried me more than
my first! At least on the tummy, they've
got a couple of options head-turningwise,
but lying on one side- none really!
Now that she's in her cot, she still has a
preference for the right side, but she'll
turn over and sleep on her tummy or back.
Once they get to about 4 months, they can
roll wherever they like anyway.
Try to get them in the habit of
back-sleeping from day 1 but also pay
plenty of attention to bedding, cigarette
smoke and the other factors,- no good
having them sleeping the right way, but
ignoring all the other things and hope for
the best. It's all you can do. If you
end up with a side or tummy sleeper, at
least you'll know you are still minimising
the risks.
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
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Posted: 06-15-06 12:20pm
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They told me at the hospital that they
need to be on their backs. She told me to
remember the saying " back to sleep "
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 06-15-06 12:32pm
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Whatever... Matt sleeps on his side
because of digestive issues. It was
advised by both doctor and hospital.
Anyhow this on their backs to sleep thing
is relatively new. First they said the
only safe way for babies to sleep was on
their tummies. Now it's on their backs.
They say that babies sleeping on their
tummies is the cause of sids and
backsleeping will prevent it. So why are
babies still dying from sids?
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-15-06 12:35pm
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Back sleeping won't prevent it but it does
lower the risk.
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Emma2
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Posted: 06-15-06 13:17pm
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I was told sleeping on the side is the
best especially right after eating. If
they throw up they wont choke on the vomit
on thier side.
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Emma2
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Posted: 06-15-06 13:18pm
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D.U.D.E! Sleeping on tummy is a big ass
n.O. N.O!!! It is so dangerous they
can suffocate! They can lie on thier
stomaches for a little while, while awake
to get some excercise but I would never
let my child sleep that way.Thats
ridiculous!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 06-15-06 13:21pm
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Well I would lay my kid on their side
cause my sisters baby almost choked to
death sleeping on her back.They ended up
having her sleep in her carseat for a
while and then they put some kind if thing
in her crib to prop her up a little while
she's sleeping.I would not want my child
laying on their back or stomache
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-15-06 13:37pm
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but won't
my baby choke if he or she sleeps on his
or her back?
No. Healthy babies automatically swallow
or cough up fluids. There has been no
increase in choking or other problems for
babies who sleep on their backs.
i'm going to put my baby down on his back.
I know everyone does things their own
ways but i'm going to go with what I feel
is safest.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 06-15-06 14:19pm
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| iheartmybostonterrier
wrote: | but won't my baby choke if he or she
sleeps on his or her back?
No. Healthy babies automatically swallow
or cough up fluids. There has been no
increase in choking or other problems for
babies who sleep on their backs.
i'm going to put my baby down on his back.
I know everyone does things their own
ways but i'm going to go with what I feel
is safest. |
yeah thats a load of bul
caus emy sisters baby was very healthy and
she almost died from choking on her 'spit
up'.I'm with bridget on this one.If I
don't think its safe for my child,i wont
do it no matter what the damn doc says
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Ingi
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Posted: 06-15-06 16:01pm
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Back in the 'olden' days, it was
recommended to put babies to sleep on
their stomachs. My son never, ever slept
on his back. By the time I had my
daughter, they had changed the whole thing
around to have them sleep on their backs.
However, my brother was told just a few
years prior to put my nephew to sleep on
his side.
This has changed, obviously, a few times.
I would do whatever I felt comfortable
with - without causing harm to my child.
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I want to be a mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 May 2006 Posts: 221 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 06-15-06 22:07pm
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I work in childcare and its a state law
that we can not put babies to sleep on
their bellies b/c of sids. If they roll
over on thier own that is ok b/c they have
the ability to roll. Also we all know
this but some people do it anyways and its
a no no pillows in cribs!
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 06-15-06 22:45pm
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I think that you can put your baby to
sleep however you please. Ethan sleeps on
his stomach and has since he was about a
week old. He will not sleep on his back
because he has gas problems that wake him
up.
From h
ttp://www.Usnews.Com/usnews/health/article
s/041115/15sids.Htm
in the past couple of years, scientists
have become increasingly focused on the
role of genetics in sids. Currently, sids
is diagnosed when all other forms of death
are ruled out, leaving families to wonder
what went wrong. Previous research has
identified risk factors--such as smoking
cigarettes and putting infants to sleep on
their stomachs--but has done little to get
at the underlying cause. In the past
decade, efforts to teach people about
these risk factors, including the federal
back to sleep campaign, have cut the
number of sids deaths in half. Still,
sids is the most common form of death for
babies between 1 month and 1 year old,
killing more than 2,200 infants annually.
Researchers are now looking at genes as a
way to explain why sids deaths continue
even in the absence of risk factors.
Michael ackerman, a pediatric
cardiologist, is one of several sids
researchers who have recently found
abnormalities in the genes of sids babies
that regulate the development of the
autonomic nervous system, which governs
basic functions like breathing, gasping,
and the beating of the heart. "sids was a
black box just a few years ago," he says,
"and now it's like there is a candle
lit."
most researchers believe that genetic
abnormalities bump babies into a high-risk
group but that environment plays a role as
well. Babies up to the age of 6 months
are still developing their ability to
control their bodies--even things we take
for granted, such as breathing and
swallowing. When an infant of that age
has a genetic mutation that causes
abnormal development, even if the baby
looks and acts perfectly healthy, any
small stress on the body, such as a prone
sleeping position or blankets covering the
baby's mouth, could cause sudden death.
But, for parents who have lost their
children despite being careful, these
theories offer little comfort. Kelly del
vecchio, 34, says she was "obsessed" with
preventing sids when she had her son,
ryan, in july 2003. He died three months
and 12 days later. "we did everything
right. We tried to do everything that
they tell you to do," she says.
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candita_sky
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Posted: 06-15-06 22:58pm
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My first born child 1997 the nurse said
put her to sleep on her belly. My
2&3 2001 2002 put on side roll up
rec blanket and put behind and in front by
armpit length but now they do say put on
the back and also that a pacifier may help
prevent sids. Go figure.
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