An 18 Year Old Virgin Needs Your Help Posted: 06-15-06 16:48pm
Hey everyone,
i'm 18 and i’m about to graduate high
school, and i'm still a virgin. This
doesn’t bother me too much, but my
biggest concern is that i’m going to
college in august. Now i’ve seen in
movies and heard countless stories about
how when guys have their first time, they
last for a minute. My question is: is
there anything I can do now or at all, to
be able to last a decent amount for my
first time? I really don't want to go to
college and have sex and disappoint.
I've read a couple forums on premature
ejaculation here and i’m trying to do
the stop-start, and kegels, but I don’t
know if it’s helping or what.
Also about kegels, I don't know how many I
should do. From some places i’ve read
three sets of twenty, and others i've read
to do 100 in a day. And once i’ve done
these for a while, will I last longer or
am I supposed to employ my new muscles
when i’m having sex?
I read in a tantra site that at the point
of no return, that you should squeeze the
pc to hold back the ejaculation, but still
orgasm. But then I read on another site
that this is bad, and that squeezing the
pc stimulates the prostate and can make
your cum faster. I really am starting to
get confused with everything.
Thanks a lot to anyone who can help!
~kyuzo
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leoclaw79
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Apr 2006 Posts: 10 Location: New Jersey
Posted: 06-15-06 20:28pm
Hmm cant really help...Im a 15 yearold
virgin lol
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*4ng3*
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Posts: 17 Location: UK
Re: An 18 Year Old Virgin Needs Your Help Posted: 06-16-06 09:29am
kyuzo
wrote:
hey everyone,
i'm 18 and i’m about to graduate high
school, and i'm still a virgin. This
doesn’t bother me too much, but my
biggest concern is that i’m going to
college in august. Now i’ve seen in
movies and heard countless stories about
how when guys have their first time, they
last for a minute. My question is: is
there anything I can do now or at all, to
be able to last a decent amount for my
first time? I really don't want to go to
college and have sex and disappoint.
I've read a couple forums on premature
ejaculation here and i’m trying to do
the stop-start, and kegels, but I don’t
know if it’s helping or what.
Also about kegels, I don't know how many I
should do. From some places i’ve read
three sets of twenty, and others i've read
to do 100 in a day. And once i’ve
done these for a while, will I last longer
or am I supposed to employ my new muscles
when i’m having sex?
I read in a tantra site that at the point
of no return, that you should squeeze the
pc to hold back the ejaculation, but still
orgasm. But then I read on another site
that this is bad, and that squeezing the
pc stimulates the prostate and can make
your cum faster. I really am starting
to get confused with everything.
Thanks a lot to anyone who can help!
~kyuzo
guys coming quickly on there first time
isn't premature ejaculation, its cuz its a
completely new sensation that your not use
to. Its intense and mixed with nerves
thats what makes you come quickly.
I doubt all that stuff your doing is
helping as its for people with a premature
ejaculation problems (not virgins, two
completely different things!!). Don't
worry about lasting long because you could
always take a quick break then go again!!!
The more you worry the worse it will be,
don't just jump in with anyone make sure
you like each other first beacuse it tends
to be the girls who just want sex that end
up being disappointed. If she likes you a
lot then she wont care how long you last
on your first time!!
Just chill out and when the time comes the
time comes!!! After the first time you
will last longer!!
Hope this helps :)
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Guess_Who?
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jun 2006 Posts: 6
Re: An 18 Year Old Virgin Needs Your Help Posted: 06-16-06 11:57am
*4ng3*
wrote:
kyuzo
wrote:
hey everyone,
i'm 18 and i’m about to graduate high
school, and i'm still a virgin. This
doesn’t bother me too much, but my
biggest concern is that i’m going to
college in august. Now i’ve seen in
movies and heard countless stories about
how when guys have their first time, they
last for a minute. My question is: is
there anything I can do now or at all, to
be able to last a decent amount for my
first time? I really don't want to go
to college and have sex and disappoint.
I've read a couple forums on premature
ejaculation here and i’m trying to do
the stop-start, and kegels, but I don’t
know if it’s helping or what.
Also about kegels, I don't know how many I
should do. From some places i’ve
read three sets of twenty, and others i've
read to do 100 in a day. And once
i’ve done these for a while, will I last
longer or am I supposed to employ my new
muscles when i’m having sex?
I read in a tantra site that at the point
of no return, that you should squeeze the
pc to hold back the ejaculation, but still
orgasm. But then I read on another
site that this is bad, and that squeezing
the pc stimulates the prostate and can
make your cum faster. I really am
starting to get confused with
everything.
Thanks a lot to anyone who can help!
~kyuzo
guys coming quickly on there first time
isn't premature ejaculation, its cuz its a
completely new sensation that your not use
to. Its intense and mixed with nerves
thats what makes you come quickly.
I doubt all that stuff your doing is
helping as its for people with a premature
ejaculation problems (not virgins, two
completely different things!!). Don't
worry about lasting long because you could
always take a quick break then go again!!!
The more you worry the worse it will be,
don't just jump in with anyone make sure
you like each other first beacuse it tends
to be the girls who just want sex that end
up being disappointed. If she likes you
a lot then she wont care how long you last
on your first time!!
Just chill out and when the time comes the
time comes!!! After the first time you
will last longer!!
Hope this helps :)
well, im a 16 year old virgin, and that
just gave me quite a bit of confidence,
seen as it came from a female. :)
hope it helped you too kyuzo, & gl at
college.
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hemostatic_electricity
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2006 Posts: 40
Posted: 06-21-06 15:34pm
You're going to blow fast your first time
regardless of what you do.....I promise
you that.
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Da_Dez_Bombzzz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2006 Posts: 76 Location: Connecticut, USA
Posted: 06-21-06 16:05pm
hemostatic_electricity
wrote:
you're going to blow fast
your first time regardless of what you
do.....I promise you
that.
amen lol
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grubee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 13
Posted: 06-23-06 16:19pm
Yes, I have a good suggestion. You
should de-senstize yourself by using any
combinations of vibrators, a showerpik'
and using a soft cloth. If these things
make the masturbation feel better and/or
last shorter, then you would last for a
similar time during sex. Also, avoid
alcohol because that is notorious for
making a short first time. My first time
I thought i'd last 1 minute too, I was
surprised to find it didn't feel all that
great that people claim it does, and I
never got off after an hour.
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skaterguy777
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2006 Posts: 10 Location: Arizona
Posted: 06-25-06 11:52am
Well i'm waiting till i'm married so have
fun. I'd warn you not to do it before
marrige because of my religion but thats
just me. We also had a class on it. And
they say almost 75% of people who have
pre-maritual sex get depression because
their self worth goes down. And theres a
precentage of people like 10% or something
who kill themselves over the depression.
But its your choice.
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Adam135
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2006 Posts: 3 Location: England
Posted: 06-26-06 17:33pm
The first time is just excitement. That
is why you cum so quickly. But that 1min
you said is a exaggeration!
If you are worried use a bit of 4play
first to lift the mood and get both of you
really turned on. It works..Trust me
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mitch7654
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2005 Posts: 170
Re: An 18 Year Old Virgin Needs Your Help Posted: 06-26-06 17:47pm
kyuzo
wrote:
hey everyone,
i'm 18 and i’m about to graduate high
school, and i'm still a virgin. This
doesn’t bother me too much, but my
biggest concern is that i’m going to
college in august. Now i’ve seen in
movies and heard countless stories about
how when guys have their first time, they
last for a minute. My question is: is
there anything I can do now or at all, to
be able to last a decent amount for my
first time? I really don't want to go to
college and have sex and disappoint.
I've read a couple forums on premature
ejaculation here and i’m trying to do
the stop-start, and kegels, but I don’t
know if it’s helping or what.
Also about kegels, I don't know how many I
should do. From some places i’ve read
three sets of twenty, and others i've read
to do 100 in a day. And once i’ve
done these for a while, will I last longer
or am I supposed to employ my new muscles
when i’m having sex?
I read in a tantra site that at the point
of no return, that you should squeeze the
pc to hold back the ejaculation, but still
orgasm. But then I read on another site
that this is bad, and that squeezing the
pc stimulates the prostate and can make
your cum faster. I really am starting
to get confused with everything.
Thanks a lot to anyone who can help!
~kyuzo
na man if anytihng youll last longer youll
be enrvous and its gona be hard to keep it
up.Thats how it was for me and a couple of
my freinds
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hotwheel
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jun 2006 Posts: 3
Posted: 06-27-06 15:45pm
Never go to war ..With a loaded gun. If
ya know what I mean.
I used to ..Ahh... Masterbate before,
then you will last much longer!
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heyitsme
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2004 Posts: 9
Posted: 06-30-06 00:26am
Lol skaterguy are u f***ing serious....U
really think that...Damn that s***
brainwashed u good huh.
And
hotwheel I get wat ur trying to say but u
do go to war with a loaded gun...Otherwise
ud get killed.... :d
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harwell02
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jun 2006 Posts: 8 Location: texas
Posted: 06-30-06 18:17pm
Dude...Its not that bad..Just go for
it....Even if its short it probably
shouldnt feel short...And dont think about
it too much.....Just tear it
up..Hahaha...Seriously tho... U need to
stop reading so much or else you wont have
time to have sex.
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awkwarddepressed
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2006 Posts: 70
Yeah Posted: 07-21-06 14:03pm
Yeah, just do it and get it out of the way
early, otherwise youll feel like a total
douche like I do having waited to have sex
till I was 28.
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 07-21-06 15:36pm
Okay I have to add to this post..
I'd much rather have sex with a guy that
goes fast than a guy that takes forever to
go..Because it makes me feel better that I
cant make them go faster...Because if a
guy takes forever--i wonder if it feels
good..Get what im saying?
Dont worry about time --just enjoy it
...And make sure that you dont just jump
in bed with the first girl...Make sure you
are with someone you like..Because you
have waited this long..Make it worth it..
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trevor_1212
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2006 Posts: 6 Location: michigan
Posted: 07-30-06 04:38am
~*~jillian~*~
wrote:
okay I have to add to this
post..
I'd much rather have sex with a guy that
goes fast than a guy that takes forever to
go..Because it makes me feel better that I
cant make them go faster...Because if a
guy takes forever--i wonder if it feels
good..Get what im saying?
Dont worry about time --just enjoy it
...And make sure that you dont just jump
in bed with the first girl...Make sure you
are with someone you like..Because you
have waited this long..Make it worth
it..
my first time I lasted
15 mins I didnt think I would last that
long maybe you'll be surprized!?
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