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K_Tallent
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 13 Location: Georgia
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Have Or Are Any of You Trying to Get Pregnant?
Posted: 06-15-06 16:58pm
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I was just wondering, im 16 but im married
most people seem to think im stupid for
trying but I personally dont care what
others think....Have any of you been
through this?
Kt
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2129 Location: uk
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Posted: 06-15-06 17:13pm
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No I didnt plan my baby, hes 3 months old,
im 17. I think girls who are our ages and
plan to get pregnant, dont really
understand how big a responsibility it is,
and everything involved. Sorry if that
offends you. Theres someone on here thats
younger, who surprised me in that way
tho...
Dont you have plans to finish school first
and go to college, get qualifications so
you can have a well payed job/career?
You're married, but you should still get
qualifications so you can work. What if
you get preggers now, your marriage doesnt
work, so then you're left with a baby, no
money, cant afford a home. I think you
should finish school, college first then
try for a baby when you can support
yourself if you need to and not rely 100%
on your man. Its only a few years to wait
why be in a hurry? Im not saying you cant
study while you have a baby, but im sure
its a lot more difficult that it would be
to get school out the way first, then
focus on being a mother.
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K_Tallent
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 13 Location: Georgia
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Posted: 06-15-06 17:24pm
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I have some health issues that can later
in life cause me not to have a baby, i'll
be starting college in july, you didnt
offend me im not that childish, but I have
thought long and hard about this and spent
many hours talking thiings out with my
husband
but I completely understand where you're
coming from.
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K_Tallent
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 13 Location: Georgia
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Posted: 06-15-06 17:46pm
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| cloud9
wrote: | | how old is your
husband? |
why may I ask is this your business?
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AlliE_18
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Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2129 Location: uk
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K_Tallent
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 13 Location: Georgia
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Posted: 06-15-06 17:52pm
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mhm :lol:
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-15-06 17:53pm
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Remember (cloud9) this isn't a post about
her husbands age its a post about her
wanting to get pregnant, I was reminded of
that when I made a nasty comment in
someones post soo keep that in mind.
You are young, but if you're still
planning on going to college and whatnot
and live on your own with your husband and
you think you can do it without him (if
something were to happen) then good luck.
:)
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K_Tallent
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Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 13 Location: Georgia
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Posted: 06-15-06 17:57pm
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Well thanks for the hospitality :) :roll:
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-15-06 18:00pm
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Roll?
Whyd you roll your eyes =(
lol
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K_Tallent
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 13 Location: Georgia
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Posted: 06-15-06 18:07pm
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Sry clicked the wrong icon :wink:
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-15-06 18:08pm
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Haha ok just checking :p
so how long have you been married and
stuff?
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smoothiesRyummy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Apr 2006 Posts: 151 Location: Earth
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Posted: 06-15-06 18:10pm
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K_tallent- I think it's completely and
totally up to you and your husband to
decide, not random people on a chat board.
If you feel this is one of your only
chances to be able to conceive a child
(due to your health problems), and if you
feel (you yourself, not other people) that
you are ready to have a child and have the
responsibility, and provide for it, then
go ahead if you want to.
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-15-06 18:18pm
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What are the health problems that might
keep you from conceiving when you're
older?
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yellow ribbon
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
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Posted: 06-15-06 18:47pm
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I dont see the problem with asking her
husbands age. All of us here know how old
we are and out significant other. I dunno
aboiut cloud9s intetions with the question
I just wanna get to know you and your
situation
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-15-06 18:55pm
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Lol I just wanted to give the same advice
as kia gave me =p only this situation
wasn't the same so I apologize.
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