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K_Tallent

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Have Or Are Any of You Trying to Get Pregnant?
Posted: 06-15-06 16:58pm

I was just wondering, im 16 but im married most people seem to think im stupid for trying but I personally dont care what others think....Have any of you been through this?

Kt
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AlliE_18

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Posted: 06-15-06 17:13pm

No I didnt plan my baby, hes 3 months old, im 17. I think girls who are our ages and plan to get pregnant, dont really understand how big a responsibility it is, and everything involved. Sorry if that offends you. Theres someone on here thats younger, who surprised me in that way tho...

Dont you have plans to finish school first and go to college, get qualifications so you can have a well payed job/career? You're married, but you should still get qualifications so you can work. What if you get preggers now, your marriage doesnt work, so then you're left with a baby, no money, cant afford a home. I think you should finish school, college first then try for a baby when you can support yourself if you need to and not rely 100% on your man. Its only a few years to wait why be in a hurry? Im not saying you cant study while you have a baby, but im sure its a lot more difficult that it would be to get school out the way first, then focus on being a mother.
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K_Tallent

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Posted: 06-15-06 17:24pm

I have some health issues that can later in life cause me not to have a baby, i'll be starting college in july, you didnt offend me im not that childish, but I have thought long and hard about this and spent many hours talking thiings out with my husband

but I completely understand where you're coming from.
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K_Tallent

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Posted: 06-15-06 17:46pm

cloud9 wrote:
how old is your husband?


why may I ask is this your business?
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AlliE_18

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Posted: 06-15-06 17:47pm

Mhm
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K_Tallent

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Posted: 06-15-06 17:52pm

allie_18 wrote:
mhm
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mhm :lol:
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 06-15-06 17:53pm

Remember (cloud9) this isn't a post about her husbands age its a post about her wanting to get pregnant, I was reminded of that when I made a nasty comment in someones post soo keep that in mind.


You are young, but if you're still planning on going to college and whatnot and live on your own with your husband and you think you can do it without him (if something were to happen) then good luck. :)
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K_Tallent

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Posted: 06-15-06 17:57pm

Well thanks for the hospitality :) :roll:
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 06-15-06 18:00pm

Roll?

Whyd you roll your eyes =(

lol
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K_Tallent

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Posted: 06-15-06 18:07pm

Sry clicked the wrong icon :wink:
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 06-15-06 18:08pm

Haha ok just checking :p

so how long have you been married and stuff?
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smoothiesRyummy

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Posted: 06-15-06 18:10pm

K_tallent- I think it's completely and totally up to you and your husband to decide, not random people on a chat board. If you feel this is one of your only chances to be able to conceive a child (due to your health problems), and if you feel (you yourself, not other people) that you are ready to have a child and have the responsibility, and provide for it, then go ahead if you want to.
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Bridget

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Posted: 06-15-06 18:18pm

What are the health problems that might keep you from conceiving when you're older?
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yellow ribbon

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Posted: 06-15-06 18:47pm

I dont see the problem with asking her husbands age. All of us here know how old we are and out significant other. I dunno aboiut cloud9s intetions with the question I just wanna get to know you and your situation
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 06-15-06 18:55pm

Lol I just wanted to give the same advice as kia gave me =p only this situation wasn't the same so I apologize.
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