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Posted: 06-23-06 18:43pm
jolie_3110
wrote:
the fact that a woman isnt
even willing to tell her g.P that she is
pregnant tells me theres something odd
going on,
you can hide your pregnancy all you want
but you are going to have to have this
baby at some point.
I lived in flats once and this woman lived
opposite me, she had both her children
taken into care and got pregnant again,
she didnt tell a soul. On the night she
went into labour she stayed at home as
long as she could but eventually her b/f
had to phone an ambulance, social services
were called and took the baby away.
Why r u so scared to tell ur own doctor
you pregnant? When I had my child at 18
social services visited me (because of the
father, thank goodness he was no longer
around) I always remember them telling me
they never take children away unless they
really have too. I hate things like
this. I dont mean to be rude but it isnt
bipolar, theres more to it. If you were
a fit mother you would still have your
children and you would be doing the best
for your unborn child
too.
do you know what bipolar is? Chances are
she is manic right now and thinks she
knows what is best for her, for the entire
world. Everything has come into focus.
Especially since she has stopped the
medication. She isn't going to listen to
any of us say anything 'against' her
'plan'. To her, i'm sure, it sounds
completely rational. Then will come the
crash and she'll drop emotionally like a
ton of bricks. That would be my fear,
that she'll come down from her bipolar
'high' and will not be able to function.
That is when she'll need support the most
and hopefully it will be available to
her.
I cannot imagine how awful it would be to
feel like I was trapped and couldn't turn
to anyone for fear of my child being taken
away from me! I don't condone the
behavior, but I can sympathize with her
situation.
She has already had two children taken
away from her ~ that is why she
doesn't tell her .G.P.
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Jolie_3110
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 1755 Location: Essex, England
Posted: 06-23-06 18:55pm
ingi
wrote:
jolie_3110
wrote:
the fact that a woman isnt
even willing to tell her g.P that she is
pregnant tells me theres something odd
going on,
you can hide your pregnancy all you want
but you are going to have to have this
baby at some point.
I lived in flats once and this woman lived
opposite me, she had both her children
taken into care and got pregnant again,
she didnt tell a soul. On the night she
went into labour she stayed at home as
long as she could but eventually her b/f
had to phone an ambulance, social services
were called and took the baby away.
Why r u so scared to tell ur own doctor
you pregnant? When I had my child at 18
social services visited me (because of the
father, thank goodness he was no longer
around) I always remember them telling me
they never take children away unless they
really have too. I hate things like
this. I dont mean to be rude but it
isnt bipolar, theres more to it. If you
were a fit mother you would still have
your children and you would be doing the
best for your unborn child
too.
do you know what bipolar is? Chances are
she is manic right now and thinks she
knows what is best for her, for the entire
world. Everything has come into focus.
Especially since she has stopped the
medication. She isn't going to listen to
any of us say anything 'against' her
'plan'. To her, i'm sure, it sounds
completely rational. Then will come the
crash and she'll drop emotionally like a
ton of bricks. That would be my fear,
that she'll come down from her bipolar
'high' and will not be able to function.
That is when she'll need support the most
and hopefully it will be available to
her.
I cannot imagine how awful it would be to
feel like I was trapped and couldn't turn
to anyone for fear of my child being taken
away from me! I don't condone the
behavior, but I can sympathize with her
situation.
She has already had two children taken
away from her ~ that is why she
doesn't tell her
.G.P.
yes I know what bipolar is ..I lived with
someone who had it , I just dont believe
that she would have children took away
from her souly because of this,
has she even said that bipolar is
responsible for her children being taken
away???
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Jolie_3110
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 1755 Location: Essex, England
Posted: 06-23-06 19:00pm
Ok after re-reading the posts I see that
she did!
That is rough and I hope you can find a
doctor who will listen to your needs, good
luck
