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Q: Confused Is What I Am
asked by: PinayLovesReaper on June 19th, 2006
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Hmmmm so im a month late on my period im supposed to get my period on the 20th every month....So I took a test may 22nd nd it came out negative....So I thought hmmm jes u kno stress who knos?...So I took another on jes in case so I took it hmmm 2 weeks later came out negative nd the first test I took was an ept....The second was a digital ept one I forgot what it was called...I relly kno I shud go to the doctors but grrr my fiance jes got really sick I have no time and I have to work and yet im only 18 :( yea I kno young...What can cause the test to be wrong?....Nd also ive beeen jes feelin like maybe ill get this period this month cuz my boobs are hurrtin and ive been cravin for foods like I usually do...So maybe im gettin my period?...Nd jes skipped the other period?...Yea so im confused can u give me ne tips?....
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Mabel
replied on June 19th, 2006
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Go to planned parenthood. Have them test you for pregnancy then get on some birth control.

Good luck.
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PinayLovesReaper
replied on June 19th, 2006
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Hmmm
Wouldnt the test jes come out the same a negative?....Cuz I took a ept twice...Hmmm I guess as soon as my fiance gets better I will go to planned parent hood
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Melissa_20
replied on June 19th, 2006
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Blood tests from the doc are a lot more accurate that the reg. Hpt.I would go if I were you.Good luck!
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Emma2
replied on June 19th, 2006
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Re: Confused Is What I Am
pinaylovesreaper wrote:
hmmmm so im a month late on my period im supposed to get my period on the 20th every month....So I took a test may 22nd nd it came out negative....So I thought hmmm jes u kno stress who knos?...So I took another on jes in case so I took it hmmm 2 weeks later came out negative nd the first test I took was an ept....The second was a digital ept one I forgot what it was called...I relly kno I shud go to the doctors but grrr my fiance jes got really sick I have no time and I have to work and yet im only 18 :( yea I kno young...What can cause the test to be wrong?....Nd also ive beeen jes feelin like maybe ill get this period this month cuz my boobs are hurrtin and ive been cravin for foods like I usually do...So maybe im gettin my period?...Nd jes skipped the other period?...Yea so im confused can u give me ne tips?....


yeah I have a tip. You might want to use proper grammar so we can all understand what your trying to say. And secondly go get a blood test.
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chrissy721
replied on June 19th, 2006
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I would be confused in your shoes too. I thought at first you were talking about a girl named jes. I was a little confused.
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PinayLovesReaper
replied on June 19th, 2006
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Hmmm
Hmm sorry for my grammer but I barely graduated and just still in the state of my grammer....Sometimes when im in a rush I dont care about my typing and I type too fast that I dont care about my grammer :( and plus im new to forums and im like hmmm 18 in like 2 months so I still bla......Anways I read a book at barnes and nobles today...And it said that under the counter test sometimes dont read the hormone...So I will have to test back in 2 weeks....They said test 6 weeks after your missed period......So I will do that....Ill keep you guys posted...:)...Sorry about the grammer also
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normita1806
replied on June 19th, 2006
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I Feel You
My period is a month late as well n I got the symptoms for pregnancy, but the test came out to negative I was so upset!!!
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PinayLovesReaper
replied on June 20th, 2006
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Yea
Well the book I read stated to take a test 6 weeks after your missed period...Because the hormone is now in your system yet....So take one in 2 weeks like I am....
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Da_Dez_Bombzzz
replied on June 20th, 2006
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I strongly think you should be on some kind of b/c. Please don't tell me you had sex unprotected. A child doesn't deserve to have parents who aren't ready to take care of him/her.

You should see a doctor, and or planned parenthood. They will test you at a low low cost, your body is important you only get one!! So you really should hunni. Also, you need to make sure that you get tested soon so you can handle your issues and alternitives just in case you are pregnant. Good luck, be safe
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PinayLovesReaper
replied on June 20th, 2006
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Yea I Know
Yeah I will see a doctor as soon as my fiance gets much more better because he has to get surgery...As for me not being ready...To think of it no ones really ever ready im not trying to sound rude or anything but its true...No one is ever ready...I know im quite young and trust me ive done much more worst things to my body....I had bulimia for 2 years and I was anorexic ever since I was in 7th grade...I was and still am a cutter....And I know its not any different than anything but I know that my fiance and I can do it...Not by ourselves maybe by the help of my family and his but we can do it.... I will update as soon as I get the results...:) thanks for the help ladies
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Mabel
replied on June 20th, 2006
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You are right, no one is really as ready as they think they are. But some have basic skills already in place. You don't. That isn't meant to sound mean, but, sweetie, you don't wait 6 weeks to take a pregnancy test!!!!!!

The pregnancy hormone is in your system as soon as the baby implants in the uterus. If you were pregnant, it would show by now. Sure, there are circumstances where it doesn't work and some people get a negative test for weeks, but they go to the doctor because they are taking care of themselves and their unborn child.

Are you taking vitamins? Why not? It is proven that children can have birth defects if you don't take folic acid. Why wait until your boyfriend has surgery? Why not just walk into planned parenthood (it's a walk in clinic, by the way) and get a pregnancy test? It is free. Free as in won't cost you anything. Don't be foolish and put off the inevitable.

If you are not pregnant, get yourself on some birth control. Learn to spell and use grammar, get a good job, then have a baby.
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Emma2
replied on June 20th, 2006
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Re: Yea
pinaylovesreaper wrote:
well the book I read stated to take a test 6 weeks after your missed period...Because the hormone is now in your system yet....So take one in 2 weeks like I am....


thats not true. Your hormone is in your system the moment you implant. What the problem is that there isnt enough for a test to detect the hormone.
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Emma2
replied on June 20th, 2006
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Oh and you should care about spelling properly and not wanting to look so ignorant person with no education. What the hell does jes mean? And whats with hmmmhmmmm hmmmm ...I'm so annoyed! Jes
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PinayLovesReaper
replied on June 20th, 2006
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Omg
Why is everyone seem to be irritated by my grammer...It's just the way I am...I didn't come on here to get told about freaking grammer problems I came here for help by not doctors I know but by people that may have gone through what im going through...Just for comfort...And here you guys are just complaining about my grammer....Sorry that im annoying you guys...Then just don't go to my topic okay I already have a lot on my mind right seriously I do...I just came on here for help...I already hear a caca from my parents about things....For those who have been helping me thank you but those who are jes disrespecting me please get a life....I will go to a doctor soon....I can't go right now because theres no one that can take care of him right now except me....But thank you for people that are helping me I will go I promise
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Melissa_20
replied on June 21st, 2006
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Re: Omg
pinaylovesreaper wrote:
why is everyone seem to be irritated by my grammer...It's just the way I am...I didn't come on here to get told about freaking grammer problems I came here for help by not doctors I know but by people that may have gone through what im going through...Just for comfort...And here you guys are just complaining about my grammer....Sorry that im annoying you guys...Then just don't go to my topic okay I already have a lot on my mind right seriously I do...I just came on here for help...I already hear a health question from my parents about things....For those who have been helping me thank you but those who are jes disrespecting me please get a life....I will go to a doctor soon....I can't go right now because theres no one that can take care of him right now except me....But thank you for people that are helping me I will go I promise
and please tell us how the results came out!
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PinayLovesReaper
replied on June 23rd, 2006
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Good News Ladies
Came out negative....But the doctor said there is a slight chance that I might be but it's very low....So I start birth control in hmmmm 10 days...Also my hunny is getting better....So im really happy right now....I have not had sex in 3 weeks and im not planning on it until I get birth control....I promise....Do pap smears hurt?....Im scared but I know I got to get one I want one im just nervous...Thanks ladies soo much for the help I mean I cant ask my fiance because bla men don't know anything and ive been in those types of moods latly because taking care of him is soo hard...And im just tired...So ive been going off on everyone :)....Any ways ill tell u the results of my other test in 10 days :)
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SavannahNoelle
replied on June 23rd, 2006
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I've heard of pap smears hurting some people a little bit, but they've never hurt me. It's also over in like a minute so it's a piece of cake.
I wouldn't worry about it, it's just one of those unpleasant things in life that we have to do!
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Mississippi
replied on June 23rd, 2006
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Pap smears aren't that bad.They're good to have.And tey are a lot better if you don't listen to all the negative talk about it and just relax.Relaxing makes it sooo easy.Good luck.
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