Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
the Soon-to-be- Father Called Today.. . Posted: 01-14-04 23:58pm
Hi everyone.
As some of u know, I am 18, 13 weeks
pregnant with ryan's baby (my ex) he
turned into a real problem and was telling
others that it wasnt his baby and that im
just some promiscuous person. .And he
totally ditched me when he found out I
wouldnt get an abortion.. Anyhow, I
hadnt talked to him in about a month n a
half sense I told him the news. .But
today he finally called me back..
He told me that he mite move out of state
for hockey (which I knew) to play pro...
.But that he will still visit the kid ''if
it is his'' . . And that he wants
everything I get such as ultrasound pics
etc...And documentation of wether its a
boy or girl.. So I guess this is a good
thing? . . Who knows. .I guess I
feel a little better that he said he wants
to see the pics n stuff.. But still..Ugh
I hate him.. Just thought I would
update*
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 01-15-04 08:11am
Wow I guess that could be a good thing.
If you guys cant be boyfriend and
girlfriend still at least he still wants
to be involved with the baby.. I think
that you should give this a shot, but dont
become weak to him because you dont need
that...I hope that everything works out
with it, make sure that you keep us
posted!
Stacie
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 01-15-04 09:48am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-02-04 10:20am; edited 1 time in total
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 01-15-04 10:04am
Thanks girls*
one thing that reeeally got on my nerves
was how many times I heard him be
selfish.. He kept saying "i am going to
move to play pro.. .This is for me.. Im
gonna do this for me.." and then he said
"i dont care about what anyone thinks, im
doin this, this is my chance, i'm doing it
for me" he kept saying that. . . My mom
was like "does he not realize, this isnt
about him anymore?? .. Its about the
baby" .. . But obviously hes just self
centered. I think it sucks that the baby
will only see his dad once n a great while
when he visits.. I mean im gonna have a
hard time telling the baby that this is
his dad.. That rarely comes around.
Ughhhh too bad I didnt get preg. W/ my
current boyfriend. . He would stick
around and take responsibilty. I mean,
this isnt even his baby and he says he
will treat it like it is.
I guess that is a simi good thing.
However, he can't be too great if he is
denying that it's his kid! I would not
put him on the birth certificate, order a
dna test and then laugh him away from your
child when he find out the is in fact the
father! Good luck either way! I hope it
works out for you and your baby.
Love,
chanda
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dominicksmommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2004 Posts: 279
Posted: 01-15-04 18:01pm
Hey hun
hey hun I am kind of going through the
same thing my sons father has denied him
since day one and all he ever talked about
was how much this is going to effect him
he was and is very self centered...
We have to get a dna test but now him and
his parents r dogdin us:| if u ever need
someone to talk to message me
