I kinda had a problem yesterday, as I was
having sex I felt sore...It was not
painful but it just felt like how I feel
after I have sex!! I have been with the
same partner and have been checked for
std's so im pretty sure that cant be the
reasoning...But can anyone tell me what
that was? Could be from not enough
lubrication?? I dont know. Please give
me some advice. Thankyou.
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Da_Dez_Bombzzz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2006 Posts: 76 Location: Connecticut, USA
Posted: 06-20-06 00:07am
I know that sometimes after sex that it
gets sore either from lack of lube, you
were going to fast/hard for your body, or
you just have a kind of vaginal area that
gets swelled quickly and gets irritated
from sex..Usually those can be some
reasons :)
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Da_Dez_Bombzzz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2006 Posts: 76 Location: Connecticut, USA
Posted: 06-20-06 00:55am
andrewoid
wrote:
this usually happens if your
partner doesn't lube you up properly (or
to be more blunt, go through foreplay).
Foreplay is very important. It helps you
lube up and makes sex a lot more
pleasurable - and help you reach orgasm
one or multiple times a lot easier. If
your guy doesn't do foreplay, your
'soreness' may be a psychosomatic symptom
of dissatisfaction. Sex is a process,
not an event
^_^
yes yes yes. You are defiantely right!
If you just skip foreplay, usually you end
up having a lil rough time after sex.
Since your body needs to get excited and
lubed up, you can't just jump into sex. I
love taking my time..So does my lover :-p
:-d