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rinsha

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Posted: 06-20-06 19:22pm

Lil_blaze2004,

atleast you gave me a good laugh, I found out sunday night in the er I was pregnant. I was put on birthcontrol by a lovely doctor, for a ruptured cyst on my right ovary. This was the beginning of may. I had just got off my period like two weeks before, they told me in the er to start taking the birthcontrol immediately to "regulate my hormones" to keep another cyst from forming.


I didn't have sex very often, and used a condom too. :cry: but still wound up pregnant. I told my doctor around the time "i got pregnant" took a test in the doctors office as well. Came out negative. My doctor told me "oh you can have pregnancy symptoms from the birth control and your body is readjusting from the cyst that ruptured, here let me give you something for you headaches, abdominal pain, and the nausea.


Me and my boyfriend are so confused and scared it isn't funny. We both live with his parents. His mom has always told him if you get her pregnant you will be kicked out. =/ she means it too, she will take away his car, and he will be kicked out she is that type of person.

I have been crying since sunday , and we are scared to death. :cry:
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loulou1980

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Posted: 06-21-06 02:25am

rinsha wrote:
lil_blaze2004,

atleast you gave me a good laugh, I found out sunday night in the er I was pregnant. I was put on birthcontrol by a lovely doctor, for a ruptured cyst on my right ovary. This was the beginning of may. I had just got off my period like two weeks before, they told me in the er to start taking the birthcontrol immediately to "regulate my hormones" to keep another cyst from forming.



I didn't have sex very often, and used a condom too. :cry: but still wound up pregnant. I told my doctor around the time "i got pregnant" took a test in the doctors office as well. Came out negative. My doctor told me "oh you can have pregnancy symptoms from the birth control and your body is readjusting from the cyst that ruptured, here let me give you something for you headaches, abdominal pain, and the nausea.



Me and my boyfriend are so confused and scared it isn't funny. We both live with his parents. His mom has always told him if you get her pregnant you will be kicked out. =/ she means it too, she will take away his car, and he will be kicked out she is that type of person.

I have been crying since sunday , and we are scared to death. :cry:


aww hun,
i got pregnancy symptoms on the implanon(contraceptive implant),its not nice and I too was worried in case I was pregnant,told my doc and he didnt even suggest a test,thus ive had it taken out as ive had enough of putting rubbis in my body.Lol.Anyways if you are,she may change her mind.Parents do say stuff,but when it actually happens its an entirely different story.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}} and take care xx
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rinsha

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Posted: 06-21-06 02:54am

Thank you its so stressful, me and her aren't on speaking terms and don't plan on being. She isn't the type of person to understand this, she is the type of person to get what she wants when she wants and if she doesn't then all hell breaks out.
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loulou1980

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Posted: 06-21-06 03:02am

rinsha wrote:
thank you its so stressful, me and her aren't on speaking terms and don't plan on being. She isn't the type of person to understand this, she is the type of person to get what she wants when she wants and if she doesn't then all hell breaks out.


pregnant or not,it doesnt seem the ideal situation.Is there anyway you could both get your own digs etc.Not sure on your age etc so forgive me if you're too young
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rinsha

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Posted: 06-21-06 10:53am

I am 18 and he is 19. He just had major surgery in december and had five foot of his small intestine removed, he is still in recovery. His parents are in there 60's. They are everything to him, his dad knows but not his mother, its pretty bad when her own husband doesn't want her to know. This is how much of a b***h she is. She is cruel and doesn't even speak to her own daughter, she just doesn't give a damn. Like I said she gets what she wants when she wants, she doesn't care on bit how much she hurts anyone. We aren't on speaking terms, for a good reason, my mother died when I was nine and one night someone I don't like said something about my mom on im messenger, trey <my boyfriend> tries to get his mom to help. She comes in here, tells me she doesn't give a damn about my mom, she was just a pill popper, she didn't know her doesn't care to know her and never wants to hear about my mother again. On top of that she said I was lower than a dog. Trey shuts his door, tells her she went overboard, give or take 2 hours, I was pissed I couldn't calm down because I couldn't beleive she had the balls to say such a thing to me. I simply told him to tell her if she had an appology that was the only way we would be speaking, she told trey she didn't give a damn about giving me an appology, she doesn't care about my mother, and never wants to hear her mentioned in this house again.



So there is no "talking between me and her". I know if it would have been the other way around I would have been out of this house so fast it would make your head spin. I believe in letting the dead be at peace, they aren't here to defend themselves.

And if you have big enough balls to say that then you grow them big enough to admit you were wrong.

But she can't so I ignore her and she ignores me, if I want something from the kitchen trey goes over there.


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loulou1980

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Posted: 06-21-06 10:54am

Aww hun

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Ingi

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Posted: 06-21-06 11:46am

Why do you live with his parents if they are so rotten?
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rinsha

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Posted: 06-21-06 15:55pm

It's not his dad its his mom. I never said his dad was rotten. His dad is a very hard working man, who does everything he can to provide us, I respect him a great deal.

Because I don't have a place of my own, I have lived with him for about two years since around 16 when we were still in high school together.

I don't have any family my mom died when I was nine. I don't have a father never knew who he was, and as far as my mom's family lets just say they are not all there.


Any negative comments, I would appreciate to be kept to themselves. You don't want to hear mine about some people and you don't know me, this going for anyone :) so please don't try and be negative and hurtful.

I appreciate it.
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Ingi

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Posted: 06-21-06 16:58pm

rinsha wrote:
it's not his dad its his mom. I never said his dad was rotten. His dad is a very hard working man, who does everything he can to provide us, I respect him a great deal.


Because I don't have a place of my own, I have lived with him for about two years since around 16 when we were still in high school together.

I don't have any family my mom died when I was nine. I don't have a father never knew who he was, and as far as my mom's family lets just say they are not all there.



Any negative comments, I would appreciate to be kept to themselves. You don't want to hear mine about some people and you don't know me, this going for anyone :) so please don't try and be negative and hurtful.


I appreciate it.


i actually didn't say a single negative thing.
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rinsha

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Posted: 06-21-06 18:08pm

I didn't say you did :) :wink:
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rinsha

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Posted: 06-21-06 18:10pm

sandralynn wrote:
i know what its like to hate the mom in law... Lol

beliiiiiieeeeve me



yeah I have read alot of your post :). I remember the one especially when she left jacob unsupervised and he got ahold of a razor while you and your husband were at walmart =x bad m.I.L.
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rinsha

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Posted: 06-21-06 18:32pm

I don't blame you one bit, I also saw his happy father's day pictures they were very cute!! He made a nice mess lol, looks like he had alot of fun.
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rinsha

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Posted: 06-21-06 18:37pm

Aww :)
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