oh_mommy
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Omg! Whats Going On!!
Posted: 06-21-06 14:26pm
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Yesterday when I wasnt home I got a call
from my docs office so today I called them
to see what they wanted and they want me
to go in today at 3:30 and to bring my mom
with me... Why would they want me to
bring her? Is something horribly wrong..
Im soooooo scared! I couldnt handle
having something wrong with my baby right
now.. What if something is wrong with me
and they want to take the baby out.. I'm
freaking out.. Whats going on!!! I cant
talk to shawn either cause hes at work and
dosnt answer his phone... I texted him
thou cause he should be on his lunch break
right now.. Gahhhh im sooo scared.. Help
me
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-21-06 14:28pm
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Aw im sorry sarah I hope everythings okay!
I'll pray for you and the baby!
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 06-21-06 14:34pm
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Thanks terra.. Im soooo horrified right
now....
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 06-21-06 14:42pm
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So when you get back your gonna tell us
what happened right?I hope it all turns
out ok!
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AlliE_18
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 06-21-06 14:52pm
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Yeah I deff will.. Im hopeing its nothing
serious andim just being horrifeid for no
reason!! At my last appointment they said
everything was going perfectly and
everything was normal.. So I hope its
something stupid.. Otherwise im gonna be
a wreak and I really dont wanna loose my
baby.. I love it soooo much
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 06-21-06 16:37pm
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A lil less then a hour and I should find
out what the doctor wants... I just want
time to be past so I dont have to worry..
I want my baby out so I can tell if
something is weird with it.. But I still
got a couple months yet as im 20 weeks
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snowygirl
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Hi Oh_mommy
Posted: 06-21-06 16:50pm
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I hope everything will be fine for ur
baby, g-luck at the appt. Let us all know
how it goes :)
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loulou1980
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Posted: 06-21-06 19:56pm
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I hope everything is ok, it's 6pm on the
west coast now.
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 06-21-06 21:54pm
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Well the appointment wasnt a waste of time
like I was hoping.. I am getting sent up
island (like a 4 hour drive from where I
live) to a diff hospital to get a test I
forget what its called but I have a 1
outta 65 chance of the baby haveing downs
syndrome.. Im so depressed now... My doc
said the average for most women is 1 out
of 1500.. So im so scared, my mom tells
me not to worry but its kinda hard not to
worry.. I dont want anything to happen I
mean I couldnt handle that, and shawn and
I couldnt even afford to have a baby with
downs syndrom so we would have to put it
up for adoption or abort it.. Which I
dont want to do.. Has anyone had this
happen to them? Im soo scared..
Apparently the test they freeze my belly
and then insert a long needle into my
uterus to take some of the surrounding
blood from the baby.. Which sounds scary
but I rather know how my baby is
anyways... Im sposta get a call in the
next couple days to make an appointment
for this..
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-21-06 21:56pm
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I think if I remember correctly the
doctors told kimmie this also, im not sure
what her chances were but as you can see
ireland turned out great =) when she gets
on you can ask her for more info? I
really hope everything turns out great
sarah :)
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Ingi
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Posted: 06-21-06 21:58pm
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| oh_mommy
wrote: | | well the appointment wasnt a
waste of time like I was hoping.. I am
getting sent up island (like a 4 hour
drive from where I live) to a diff
hospital to get a test I forget what its
called but I have a 1 outta 65 chance of
the baby haveing downs syndrome.. Im so
depressed now... My doc said the average
for most women is 1 out of 1500.. So im
so scared, my mom tells me not to worry
but its kinda hard not to worry.. I dont
want anything to happen I mean I couldnt
handle that, and shawn and I couldnt even
afford to have a baby with downs syndrom
so we would have to put it up for adoption
or abort it.. Which I dont want to do..
Has anyone had this happen to them? Im
soo scared.. Apparently the test they
freeze my belly and then insert a long
needle into my uterus to take some of the
surrounding blood from the baby.. Which
sounds scary but I rather know how my baby
is anyways... Im sposta get a call in
the next couple days to make an
appointment for
this.. |
you are getting an amniocentesis. You can
find out the sex, if you don't already
know ~ as well as any abnormalities. If
you are going off the afp test you got,
please know that they have a high rate of
false positives. Meaning, they aren't
accurate. A lot of women refuse to get
them because they show a high rate of
children at risk for downs, but never
actually have the downs syndrome.
I'm glad you are getting tested. It will
put your mind at ease. Good luck and big
(((hugs))) for you!
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michelle1981
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Posted: 06-21-06 22:48pm
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I know what you are going through! I
really hope everything turns out for the
better.
This test was optional, and I had it with
both my boys. My test with .Brian
resulted in 1 in 10,000. With .Jordan
they made an error, and it came back 1 in
116. They calculated it using the wrong
lmp date. They realized it before I had
my amnio done.
Ask them to re-check your results.......
You never know!
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 06-22-06 00:59am
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Im really hoping it was a messed up
result.. Its got shawn and I sooo
worried... I dont know if im having a boy
or girl so i'll probably ask while im up
there because buying things for the baby
would make it much easier knowing what
we're having.. I am hoping its healthy..
And now I really dont give a damn if its a
boy or girl.. I wanted a healthy girl..
Still do.. But I rather have a healthy
normal baby then anything... Im sooo
scared..
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 06-22-06 03:21am
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Wow, hope it turns out ok.
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 06-22-06 09:04am
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Those test are never a 100% accurate so
even if they tell you your baby has down
it colud be wrong. Dont abort just wait
til that baby comes out because they told
my friends mom she was going to be down
syndrome and they went to a clinic to
abort but changed their mind and she came
out fine.
I would do research on downs because I
have met some people with it (my aunt is
special but not down syndrome) and I think
they just need extra care not like
medication or anything. Down syndrome is
just a birth defect not a disease
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 06-22-06 09:09am
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Yeah,its more of an emotional thing.I
mean,physically you can tell but some of
the time,they don't need anything special
accept for more love! : ) i'm sure your
baby will be fine!
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