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Q: Frustrated....

asked by: Assena on June 21st, 2006

Experienced User

I am so emotional today, been ttc for a while now and every month we think this could be the one... But always negative tests and then af.

This month I am 3 days late and my bb's are sore (like a muscle is sore if you work it too much) and they have never felt like that before af. I keep crying at every little emotional thing. I feel like I am starting to go crazy. I don't know if it is all this wanting a baby that is doing this to me or if I am realy pregnant.

I know take a hpt... I am waiting until I am at least 10 days late. I am not sure if I can handle a negative test in the state I am in right now.

I know I don't post often or talk much but you all are pretty much the only people who can understand what I am feeling. I guess I am just looking for some kind reassurances.

Replies(7)

Mabel

replied on June 21st, 2006

Moderator

Oh negative tests can be so frustrating and heartbreaking when you feel so sure this is the month! Take care of yourself. Do something nice just for you to relax.

Good luck!

loulou1980

replied on June 21st, 2006

Experienced User

Sometimes they say(although its hard) make love for just that and not to make a baby as sometimes all the trying stresses you out then as soon as you forget your trying to concieve you catch.I know its probably no advice but all I can do is

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Assena

replied on June 21st, 2006

Experienced User

Thanks... Funny thing is it has not realy bothered me until yesterday. I feel like I have a bad case of pms emotions... One minute I am fine the next a commercial comes on and I am crying or I am irritated that one of my cats got in my way to the kitchen. I wish my hubby was here. :: cry::

Assena

replied on June 21st, 2006

Experienced User

I realy want to take a warm soak in the tub but I am afraid that if I am pregnant .. Well they say no hot baths and stuff. I guess it is warm enough here maybe I will go and float in the pool... Try to relax... Maybe get some ice cream.

candita_sky

replied on June 21st, 2006

Advanced Support Team

Aww dont worry it will happen soon hun lots of babydust to you. :d

Assena

replied on June 21st, 2006

Experienced User

Thank you all for the well wishes and baby dust is always welcome...

I love irony.... I think it would just be my fate to find out that I am pregnant...We decided last week since we have been trying for over a year we were going to try one more thing before going to the doctors. We purchased a 3 month supply of ovulex (to be delivered later this week). What do I do if I find out that I am pregnant? Return it saying, "no thanks did it on our own?"

man I am having a day :cry:

megums1211

replied on June 22nd, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

loulou1980 wrote:

sometimes they say(although its hard) make love for just that and not to make a baby as sometimes all the trying stresses you out then as soon as you forget your trying to concieve you catch.I know its probably no advice but all I can do is

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you know, that is so true. It happened for me. My hubby and I had been trying for 3 months and we were on our way out the door to visit his mother and we had a fun and exciting "quickie". I was supposed to ovulate 3 days later, but since we were away, we didn't have sex for another 10 days. I even bought a ovulation predictor kit to use that month, but you know? I never needed to use it afterall! I got pregnant from that quickie ! About 12 days after the quickie, I took a test and it was positive! So I guess what they say about taking off the pressure really does work!

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