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divinty
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Why Cant I Get Preganant?
Posted: 06-21-06 21:21pm
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Ive been cing my boyfriend for over a year
and came off the pill 3 month ago. We are
getting a bit worried now because I arnt
pregnant and we try every day. He alreadt
has a little girl and keeps saying it cant
be him. Ive been taking folic acid for
abut a month because I heard it can help.
Any one got any tips? Im getting
despreate I want a child. :?
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-21-06 22:16pm
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3 months isn't very long, especially since
you were on birth control before. I've
never been on bc and it took me 8 months
to conceive the first time and 4 months
the second. Be patient.
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divinty
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Posted: 06-22-06 18:33pm
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Thanks for your reply I no its a waiting
game its just frustraiting when you are
ready to have children nothing happens
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~*klo*~
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Dont Worry
Posted: 06-23-06 13:59pm
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Hey, just wanted to say that ive been
trying for 3 years, but 1 year with my
current bf, I no that sounded bad lol.
My bf also has a little girl, its very
frustrating isnt it. Im not sure where to
go for help. Good luck any ways.
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divinty
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Posted: 06-23-06 16:01pm
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I know its so hard because shes a rite
daddys girl n I get jelious sometimes
witch I feel bad. Shes a great kid and
keeps asking me if im her new mum. What
do you say to her? She doesnt live with
us she lives with my bf parents but its
hard because he has to go stay at his
parents to with his little one. This puts
a stain on the whole baby making
buisness.X
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~*klo*~
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Posted: 06-24-06 08:13am
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I no how you feel, my bf's lil girl is
such a cutie. It does make me jelous alot
cos as you say she is a daddys girl too.
But great kid just wish she was mine!!
Sounds bad. She lives with her mum, my bf
has to go round his ex to collect her that
also makes me jelous. Xxx
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divinty
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Posted: 06-26-06 20:47pm
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Last edited by divinty on 06-26-06 20:55pm; edited 2 times in total
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divinty
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Posted: 06-26-06 20:53pm
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Its not too bad with her she lives with my
bfs parents but its hard when we go round
there even though she loves me to bits,
his mam keeps telling me all she ever goes
on about is me witch is great im really
glad I can get on with her. She never
sees her real mam witch is good I dont
ever bump into her with her living the
other side of the country and all. I
found out the hard way of knowing he had a
daughter. I went to his one nite and she
came out of her room and asked him for
some sweets. But like his mum said he was
embarrassed as there aint many single dads
living at ome with there parents. Do you
get along good with your boyfriends little
one? You see she keeps asking me if im
her new mum. What can I say to her seen
as me and my boyfriend are getting
married. Xxx
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~*klo*~
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Posted: 06-27-06 05:23am
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I think its kinda up to your boyfriend
what the little girls calls you, if your a
mother figure and if your in a stable
relationship then maybe its the best
thing. I get on well with his daughter,
but not his ex theres alot between them
and most people would proberly say I
shouldnt be with him still!!
Any way good luck with getting pregnant,
and make sure your both ready for another
little one.
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Re: Why Cant I Get Preganant?
Posted: 06-27-06 14:02pm
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| divinty
wrote: | | ive been cing my boyfriend
for over a year and came off the pill 3
month ago. We are getting a bit worried
now because I arnt pregnant and we try
every day. He alreadt has a little girl
and keeps saying it cant be him. Ive
been taking folic acid for abut a month
because I heard it can help. Any one got
any tips? Im getting despreate I want a
child. :? |
folic acid does not increase your chances
of conception but rather help when your
pregnant to reduce neural tube disease for
the baby. Its a vitamin not a fertility
drug! Second, you do know when you
ovulate? How long is your cycle?
3 months is not nearly enough time to
assume there is anythign wrong with your
fertility. It is said that after 1 year
of actively trying should you consider
infertility.
Getting off bcp can take a few months for
your body to start ovulating on its own
again.
For the record just because a man fathered
one child does not mean he can father
another. Sperm can change drastically. I
am not saying its him the problem , im am
rather just educating you on this.
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divinty
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Posted: 06-27-06 16:07pm
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I know it could be his fertility try
telling a man that. After all the advise
I was given we are still going to keep
trying and see wahat happens.
As it isnt that long in comming off the
pill im due my monthys and im late so
fingers crossed.
Me and my boyfriend decided to tell his
little one im her friend not her mum but
ill be there if she needs me as her mum
aint around.
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~*klo*~
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Posted: 07-01-06 13:34pm
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I no this is prob not the questions you
want, but how come the little gal doesnt
see her mum? And if you two are trying
for another why doesnt the lil girl live
with you? Cos she might feel left out if
theres a new baby on the scene.
My bf lil girl knows me, she sometimes
calls me mum but she no's im not her real
mum and she no's that im daddys lady.
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nanabell
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Posted: 07-24-06 08:57am
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Oh god I thought I was the only one ! My
hbd and I have been trying for 3 years , I
had an etopic pregnancy 2 years ago and
just went though ivf im march, and still
nothing ...... Im so sad I just got my
period today ...Help I really dont know
what else to do ???? :(
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nanabell
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Posted: 07-24-06 09:11am
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| nanabell
wrote: | | oh god I thought I was the
only one ! My hbd and I have been trying
for 3 years , I had an etopic pregnancy 2
years ago and just went though ivf im
march, and still nothing ...... Im so
sad I just got my period today ...Help I
really dont know what else to do ????
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