you need to dump his a$$!!!!! Any man who asks you to get an abortion does not in no way love you and he never will! I suggest you keep the child and move on...Its not easy but its worth it! Dump his sorry a$$!

honestly,there is nothing you can say to him.Some people are ready,some aren't.Obviously you have already made your decision(good for you not letting him tell you what to do!!!) and he will just have to get over it.He participated in the making of the baby so he can either be with you and the child or not be with you and ay child support.Some guys want an abortion but when the baby is born and they see what they helped make,that all goes away!Either way,good luck with everything.How far along are you?

All I can say is .N.E.V.E.R get an abortion for someone else. You will regret it.

If you really want this baby and he doesn;t then it is really your body-your decision. He may come around after.

If he wasn't prepared to be a father, he shouldn't have helped to create a baby. He should have thought about that before. If you want this baby, that's all that matters. He has two choices: either get over the fact that he got you pregnant and step up to the plate, or resign himself to the reality of paying child support when the little one is born.

The funny thing about some people (men and women both)... They don't consider the consequences of their actions until the consequences happen... And then they want an easy way out of it because they "weren't ready". It's a hard lesson to learn for some people, but that's life for you. Congratulations on your pregnancy, sweetie, and don't stress about convincing your man. He'll either come around on his own, or he won't. Either way, he has a responsibility to you and your unborn child.

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I'd have to tell you to tell him that your having this baby because of your beliefs and that you want to keep the baby. There is nothing he can do to convince you otherwise. Also tell him that once the baby is born he can choose to be a part of it's life or you are going to go after him for .C.S. And that's the end of the duscussion.

well said! Im just so sick of these men doing the deed and then running away when its time to face the music!!! I'm so fed up of them and thier spoiled as$es you don't want a child ...Wear a condom!!!! You dont want a child.....Wear 4 condoms!!!!! I would never be able to forgive my man if he asked me for an abortion. That is the loswest thing a human being can ever say ...I mean how do you get past it ???

By kicking them in the balls to make sure they'll never ask anyone else.. :-)

Lmao^^^

even tho its sounds elementray id write him a note and say ... It took 2 of us to create this life and I am not going to get rid of this, because I think this is special between us, if u want to be with me and the baby then ull cal me



and then sorda leave for a few days and see if he can live without you.

yah sorry ..Very elementary! This is real life not teenage puppy love...See if he can live without you doesnt get revealed in a feww days!!! The real way is to speak to him face to face and say "you in or you out?" "if youre in good everyone wins and pay up and if youre out, pay up buddy and stay out!!!!!" this girl doesnt have time to be chasing around a man who asks to kill his own child...Be real , be mature and do whats best for you...Not him!!!!!!

Thank you to all with advice.
I will try talking to him with your suggestions.

Ill keep you posted.

you're totally wrong about that. My husband told me to get an abortion or he'd leave me. He was only my boyfriend at the time, but I told him I wasn't going to and obviously he didn't leave me. And he does love me very much. He regrets every telling to that.

If u want the baby have it I know plenty of woman who raise there baby alone if the guys a jerk why keep him all hell do is stress u and if u get an abortion down the line ull regret it big time just tell the guy ur having the kid and he cant change ur mind and if he has a fit kick em to the curb u dont need him then there are plenty other fish in the sea whod be willing to help u out