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lilmommie
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Announcement Wanted to Say Thanx to People Who Took My Side
Posted: 06-22-06 20:36pm
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I wanna say thanx to the ones who took my
side...And to the ones saying caca about
me you can stop!!!!!!!!!! You dont
know me I am a damn good mother. My
husand has a damn good job. And we are
damn good parents. No my kids wont end
up getting adopted like all you
promiscuous person ass people talking
about me. I give all my time to my
kids. We do own our own house and we
do pay our own bills. We dont get our
asses baby'd like you.. We have to pay
4 what we own. No I didnt go to
college but I guess u think u can only be
a good parent if you have a degree...
Its really funny the one who says I dunno
how to spell yet you cant spell...Good
subject to judge me on huh? You sound
so smart yourself... Why dont you try
not judging sumone if you dunno them or
know their situtation!!!!!!!!!!! No we
werent born into rich families...But I
know we both had both of our parents in
the home im sure unlike you... N if ur
a broke ass now n have no kids that doesnt
say much 4 u.. I have 2 kids n 1 on
the way n I have a nice house 3 very nice
cars(bmw's) n I am far from broke its
called work sweetie...(a j.O.B) so stop
dissing me k im not the kind of mother who
dumps my kids off on sumone else to raise
I raise my kids!!!!! No one else
does.... Sounds like to me my life
isnt to damn bad now does it?! Why
dont you find out the situation b4 u go
judging? Like I said thank you to the
ones who werent dissing me n was taking my
side.. :d
Last edited by lilmommie on 06-23-06 01:05am; edited 1 time in total
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 06-22-06 21:16pm
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Well first off this is the first time im
reading this... But just my own opinion..
I dont like the way you wrote it.. You
could have come across in a more mature
manner than this.. You just made yourself
look just as bad as the people you where
saying that talked crap about you.. I
wish you luck in raising your children and
being a family, but next time you have
something to say to someone try doing it a
different way and you will come across to
them better.. Hince: the root to all
evilness is smuther them with kindness...
Good luck
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I want to be a mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 May 2006
Posts: 221
Location: Missouri
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-22-06 22:13pm
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I don't know... I was like "who is this?
Do they have the right forum?"
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-22-06 22:15pm
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I think shes the one they were talking
about because shes 20 and is having her
3rd kid. They were judging saying that
she must have some govt. Help and yada
yada yada.
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cherry88
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Posted: 06-22-06 22:18pm
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She has 8 posts? Could'nt have been much
of an "arguement"
odd
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lilmommie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jun 2006
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Yes
Posted: 06-23-06 01:01am
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Yes I am the one your talking about they
werent just saying I had government
help(which I dont) they were also saying I
dont take care of my kids how sorry they
felt 4 them how they'd end up getting
adopted and a bunch of other really
hurtful things.To the one who thought I
shouldnt have came off the way I did in
what I said your right I agree with
you.Its just I believe im a good mom. I
love my kids more than anything in the
world.I was just really mad at that
moment.People have been judging me since
my 1st kid.Im just tired of people saying
stuff. I devote all my time and effort to
my children their the best thing thats
ever happened to me honestly! Im sorry if
I hurt anyones feelings about what I wrote
earlier. I shouldnt have said that stuff.
To those who have no idea what they said
to me well im sure if they said the stuff
to you it'd upset you to.I just dont want
people thinking im a bad parent because im
young,there are good n bad parents no
matter what the age is.Yes this whole
subject started about being pregnant and
happy and then they just went off on
me...Thats why I wrote it in this
forum.Anyways just saying sorry
| hcobrunette06
wrote: | | i think shes the one they
were talking about because shes 20 and is
having her 3rd kid. They were judging
saying that she must have some govt.
Help and yada yada
yada. |
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lilmommie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jun 2006
Posts: 14
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It Was About...
Posted: 06-23-06 01:03am
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What those people said about me. Anyways
I wanted to say sorry if I was rude to you
the other day(about abortion)...I was just
in a mood so I hope you 4give
me. | sandralynn
wrote: | | woah lol what the hell was
all this about
anyway? |
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 06-23-06 10:50am
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You know .Tazzy .D some people get
frusterated when people that don't even
know you start judging you and making
assumptions about you. I know that I try
not to pass judgement on people because I
don't know them and I don't want to judge
because I dont' want to be judged either.
She stated what she felt that she needed
to say and she got her point accross. If
she said it in a way that you didnt' like
then, oh well. I am not trying to start
anything, I just wouldn't want people to
start saying things about me without even
knowing me and once I stated how I felt
someone come on here having a problem with
how I said my peice.
By the way....Kindness doesn't get you off
the hook in this forum.
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 06-23-06 20:36pm
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | you know .Tazzy .D some
people get frusterated when people that
don't even know you start judging you and
making assumptions about you. I know
that I try not to pass judgement on people
because I don't know them and I don't want
to judge because I dont' want to be judged
either. She stated what she felt that
she needed to say and she got her point
accross. If she said it in a way that
you didnt' like then, oh well. I am
not trying to start anything, I just
wouldn't want people to start saying
things about me without even knowing me
and once I stated how I felt someone come
on here having a problem with how I said
my peice.
By the way....Kindness doesn't get you off
the hook in this
forum. |
first off you dont know me your right..
And ohhh trust me I could speak my peace
and alot more... And by the way you
just started something.. Look I dont
judge anyone.. But I am a single mom of
6 children and I am only 29.. And
frankly I really dont care what people
think or say.. Or wether or not I live
on gov. Assistance or not.. And just
like this girl.. Like I said and she
apologized.. She shouldnt have came off
that way because then she is feeding in to
whatever the other people had to say..
As long as she knows that she is doing
whatever it takes to care for the needs of
her children and that goes for any
mother..
So back to you sunflower.. Anything
else you feel you need to say to me then
hollar~!
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michelle1981
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Posted: 06-23-06 21:40pm
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I definitely agree with .Tanya.
The are ways of going about making a
point, and lilmommie did a horrible job at
that.
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Jolie_3110
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Joined: 04 Dec 2005
Posts: 1755
Location: Essex, England
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Posted: 06-24-06 06:49am
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Jeez...I am the only one who feels like
they have missed something?? Lol
:?
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tigresacanela24
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Posts: 5261
Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
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Posted: 06-24-06 20:08pm
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| tazzy d
wrote: | | sunflower_pie81
wrote: | you know .Tazzy .D some
people get frusterated when people that
don't even know you start judging you and
making assumptions about you. I
know that I try not to pass judgement on
people because I don't know them and I
don't want to judge because I dont' want
to be judged either. She stated what
she felt that she needed to say and she
got her point accross. If she said
it in a way that you didnt' like then, oh
well. I am not trying to start
anything, I just wouldn't want people to
start saying things about me without even
knowing me and once I stated how I felt
someone come on here having a problem with
how I said my peice.
By the way....Kindness doesn't get you off
the hook in this
forum. |
first off you dont know me your right..
And ohhh trust me I could speak my peace
and alot more... And by the way you
just started something.. Look I dont
judge anyone.. But I am a single mom
of 6 children and I am only 29.. And
frankly I really dont care what people
think or say.. Or wether or not I
live on gov. Assistance or not..
And just like this girl.. Like I said
and she apologized.. She shouldnt
have came off that way because then she is
feeding in to whatever the other people
had to say.. As long as she knows that
she is doing whatever it takes to care for
the needs of her children and that goes
for any mother..
So back to you sunflower.. Anything
else you feel you need to say to me then
hollar~! |
when people feel that they're being
personally attacked they don't always
respond the way they "should". Not
making excuses, just offering a possible
explanation.
Edited to clarify.
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 06-24-06 22:38pm
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This conversation has already been
explained and sqaushed
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 06-25-06 11:14am
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| tazzy d
wrote: | | this conversation has
already been explained and
sqaushed |
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Tazzy D
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 06-25-06 14:04pm
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Im worse then mil... Lmao
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 06-26-06 08:55am
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Oops....I didn't want the young girl to
feel attacked for no reason at all. I
thought that she stated her peice pretty
well.
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 06-26-06 09:10am
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There is a way that people can make a
statement with out making other people
that didnt say or do anything bad......
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