Im posting but no ones replying this place
is not supportive,..
Im bulimic n I need help sum 1?????
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poetmcc
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2005 Posts: 273
Hey Posted: 08-09-06 09:06am
Hey i'm really sorry no one has replied to
your message. You know all the people on
this forum are going through the same
thing, maybe they didnt know what to say.
It does not mean they cont care, it just
emans they are not sure how to help you.
Just remember there is help and hope for
you. I know it sounds stupid but it is
true. You are not alone at all. Have you
tried therpay or inpatient treatment? It
does really help. You can get out of
this. Bulimia is such a complicated
disease, there are lot of other factors
adding into it im guessing. Doctors can
help you talk about it and find out a
solution that could work for you. You
deserve the help, you deserve to live free
of all these problems.
I cant help you too much either, after I
am bulimic too and I am 17 yrs old. I
just want you to know that I am here for
you if you ever want to talk. I feel your
pain, I know you are going through a hard
time right now and theres a lot going on.
Pleas feel free to talk to me if you want
to, I would love to.
Please please take care of yourself and
remember everything will be all right in
the end. And if its not all right its not
the end.
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XtormentedchikX
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2006 Posts: 41
Posted: 08-09-06 09:43am
Thank u so much.. I didnt throw up for a
month now but yesterday I lost control of
munchkins and afterthat I got scared....
So I went to the bathroom and purged most
of it I felt better... But besides this
one time ive been eating healthy and
exercising,.. Sumtimes controlling is
hard,.. My boy gets me into the habit
of not eating... Like wen im with hi I
skip days,.. I thought it wold slow down
my metabolisnm but I actually kept losing
weight,.. My goal is to be 110 for now,..
Then after that 100 and so on... Thx for
your help =)
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v00d00cita
Advanced Support Team
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Posted: 08-10-06 10:57am
xtormentedchikx
wrote:
my boy gets me into the
habit of not eating... Like wen im with
hi I skip days,.. I thought it wold slow
down my metabolisnm but I actually kept
losing weight,.. My goal is to be 110
for now,.. Then after that 100 and so
on... Thx for your help
=)
i'm not sure that is correcxt, I don't
think, better!, i'm sure that skiping
meals and so is not the right way. But
i'm happy to know that you managed to be a
whole month without purging, that was very
good! Do it again! :)
i know that it's hard, but I managed to do
it, so, you can do it to! ;)
if you need anything, just call! ;)
cheers
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 08-10-06 13:12pm
Just keep telling yourself all of the
negative stuff that an eating disorder can
do for you, it can help you to get an
early form of arthritis, if you purge, you
can end up with esophagus problems,
depression and even death. Your car
needs fuel and work done to it and so does
your body, look at some of these people
that have been annorexic for awhile, they
are week, sick looking and alot of the
times their mind is not too good, they are
not happy, some if they are lucky end up
in hospitals with tube feedings going into
the stomach, their are some that are not
that lucky and die. You don't want to
end up in either places, get help! You
can go to mental health and they can send
you to places for help, talk to your
parents and if you feel uncomfortable
talking to them about it their are other
places you can go and talk to but do it
now for yourself, don't wait and please
don't think that I am trying to judge you,
I have been their , I have purged for a
while in my life, but I quit on my own.
I once weighed 95 lbs when I was sick with
stomach cancer, and I am big boned and
tall! I could not eat, I also learned
then that I would rather be a little
overweight than underweight.
All the best to everyone!
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v00d00cita
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Sandyallen Posted: 08-11-06 17:16pm
I'm happy to know that you're doing well.
This a proof to everyone that we can
overcome our eating disorders, we can be
stronger than them!
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 08-11-06 17:58pm
Yes, but I was sick with stomach cancer
when I got that low, I have worked in
hospitals and seen what people sre doing
to themselves, for example if you have a
child and I have 2 that are grown and they
were doing this to themselves, as their
parent, would you like the them doing
this, knowing the outcome, I would not and
I would be there for them still. The
other poster is right, their is hope and
help out there for you, I am sure you want
to be around in good shape for your
children like I was, believe me, being
bulemic(sp) and purging is not good! I am
not a Dr. You want to see your kids grow
up!
Bless you all!! Get some help!! If you
feel that that person is not helping you,
get someone else until you find the right
professional person that can help you! We
are her for you and I aam not here to slam
you at all!
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XtormentedchikX
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2006 Posts: 41
Posted: 09-01-06 13:39pm
I dont need help,.. I havent purged since
then and im losing weight.. Alot of it
but im diong it the healthy natural way
and I eat like once or twice a day 1 less
meal wont kill me so ill just slowl;y get
to my goal weight and be fine.. Thx for
ur help tho bye =)
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v00d00cita
Advanced Support Team
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Posted: 09-28-06 02:53am
And how are you know? Are you getting
healthy or feeling obsessed with losing
weight? Gone to a doctor? **
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lollipops92
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2006 Posts: 36
Posted: 09-29-06 09:28am
Hey xtormentedchikx how u doing now babe??
Eating healty and doing exercise is the
right way to go. Try not to skip to many
meals........Even though thats what I do,
so I cant really talk. Im am getting
better though I have a lunch and a small
dinner most days, but I hate being in
school because I find myself eating a bar
afta skol once a week, n I hate wen I do
dat but im joining the gym next week just
to help me feel betta!!! Lam but I dont
care!!!! Laura xoxox
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 10-03-06 07:06am
lollipops92
wrote:
even though thats what I do,
so I cant really talk. Im am getting
better though I have a lunch and a small
dinner most days, but I hate being in
school because I find myself eating a bar
afta skol once a week, n I hate wen I do
dat but im joining the gym next week just
to help me feel betta!!! Lam but I dont
care!!!! Laura
xoxox
how are you doing, laura? Xoxox
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lollipops92
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2006 Posts: 36
Posted: 10-09-06 09:08am
Em I was doing great for ages but I
started workin in a local supermarket so
ive been eating geting alot less and doing
alot of work which made me lose around a
stone dat I had put on, but im still at a
healty weight.
For the last couple of days ive felt
like getting sick, my body just dosnt want
food. All day in school today I felt
terible and I knew if I got sick id be all
better but the ting was I had no food in
my tummy! Im on medication now so maybe
its that. My bdd is also unda control at
da mo 2!!! Hws u babe???
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 10-10-06 03:02am
lollipops92
wrote:
em I was doing great for
ages but I started workin in a local
supermarket so ive been eating geting alot
less and doing alot of work which made me
lose around a stone dat I had put on, but
im still at a healty weight.
For the last couple of days ive felt
like getting sick, my body just dosnt want
food. All day in school today I felt
terible and I knew if I got sick id be all
better but the ting was I had no food in
my tummy! Im on medication now so maybe
its that. My bdd is also unda control at
da mo 2!!! Hws u
babe???
ok, I hope you get well soon, babe. I
rally hope you're doing better with your
eating and your weight, i'm trying too...
:\ today's my sister's birthday and it's
worrying me. I had a fine breakfast, but
i'm not having lunch. Maybe i'll have
something when I get home, by tea time or
so. If not, i'll have dinner, i'm obliged
to have it, even if I don't want it :p i'm
at the university, i'm having a boring
class now :s speak to you later, give me
news, please. I feel so lonely here
though I have all my friends around! Can
you understand what i'm saying? :s
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lollipops92
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2006 Posts: 36
Posted: 10-20-06 18:05pm
Ya last year, even thought I had all my
friends around me but I felt so alone!!
It was a very bad year for me, thats when
my ed was bad and I really didnt like
myself, but im gettin better, eatin less
but ots not controling me like it use
to!!! No news, well im just after doin a
local fashion show 2day which was fun!!!!
Hows collage going for you??? :d :d
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 10-22-06 13:03pm
Yes, I feel lonely a lot... :\ and I have
so many works to do that I don't even know
where to begin, i'm so tired...
college is going normal, but i'm always
concerned about my weight again. I've
noticed that, for some reason that I don't
know, now i'm more concerned about my
weight than about my body image. It used
to be both the same or almost the same...
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 10-22-06 14:40pm
It is sooo strange now and I have worked
as a nurse and have seen a lot of females
suffer with eating orders but each time I
hear about someone having troubles with
eating disorders I cannot help but think
of .Mxgirlie101, who had no place to go
after her mom kicked her out and she
passed away a few months ago with this as
she became soooo sick and depressed with
this problem and people do not realize
that something like this could happen to
them, she seemed so sweet! Anytime I
think about purging or anything such as
that she comes to mind, anyone can say
that this will not happen to me but who
knows, I have seen others that die from it
or end up ruining their esophagus aand
haveother health and mental problems and
they never thought their situation was
possible sso please get help if you need
it and we are here for you as well!
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 10-23-06 06:51am
sandyallen
wrote:
it is sooo strange now and I
have worked as a nurse and have seen a lot
of females suffer with eating orders but
each time I hear about someone having
troubles with eating disorders I cannot
help but think of .Mxgirlie101, who had no
place to go after her mom kicked her out
and she passed away a few months ago with
this as she became soooo sick and
depressed with this problem and people do
not realize that something like this could
happen to them, she seemed so
sweet
o keep thinking about her all the time,
you know... I used to talk to her a lot,
I really miss her and her strenght...
