Need Help And Advice! Please. Posted: 06-26-06 11:12am
Hi there,
could you please answer my question as it
is taring me apart with worry.
Approx two days ago I had sex with a
street prostitute in nottingham (uk). I
was extremely stupid to do this as I have
a beautiful wife and two amazing
children!
I was very drunk at the time and the
prostitute 1stly put on a condom on my
penis and then gave me oral sex, after
which we had penetrative sex in the vagina
from behind.
Although the condom stayed on throughout
the whole experience, my main worry is
that I was not fully erect at any point in
the whole experience as I was drunk. My
penis was not fully erect during the
penetration. The prostitute squeezed on
the base of my penis whilst penetration (i
think she did that to get me more erect).
I did not ejaculate either.
Although the condom stayed on throughout
the whole process, I am worried that due
to the fact that I was not erect, I may
have caught hiv from her. I suspect that
she is a drug user, and therefore I am
becoming extremely concerened and
worried.
Please help me with my anxieties with some
advise.
I love my children so much, I would hate
to think that I have ruined theirs and my
life due to a stupid drunken night out!
Any help and advise would be so much
appreciated!
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Sarah020406
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 86
Posted: 06-27-06 23:20pm
Try to avoid having sex with your wife
(headache, too tired) till you can get a
std test done, there are lots of thing you
may have caught. Although the decission
is entirely yours whether or not you tell
your wife if you do have something and
have had sex with your wife since you will
have to tell her so she can get checked
also. As long as the comdom was used
properly then the chance of getting
something is slim, but its better to be
safe than sorry. Good luck.
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prelude
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 77
Posted: 06-28-06 06:31am
Hiv and maintaing erections have no
relation what so ever !
