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Q: Need Help! I Cant Be Pregnant Am I?
asked by: starlite on June 27th, 2006
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Im only 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex for almost a month but he pulls out all the time. We make sure he pulls out in time becuz even when he pulls out it takes him several seconds to ejaculate.
I was supposed to start my period 4 days ago and havent started. Im so scared...But then again..Ive also been stressed so much. This hasnt happened before and am so scared..Im too young to be a mom..Am I pregnant?
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Emma2
replied on June 27th, 2006
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Well, I will say this. If your too young to be a mon then your too young to have unprotected sex knwoing the consequences. Now, in reagrds to the pull out method, it fails often and you need to take a pregnancy test.If you aren't pregnant then in the future if you decide to play this high risk game of pull out I suggest you get informed about .E.C.P (emergency contraceptive pill) it is available to take upto 5 days after unportected sex and it can be purchased at a drug sotre through a phamacist, you do not need a prescription for it.
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Lalee
replied on June 27th, 2006
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I agree with emma.

And your bf has pre-cum long before he ejaculates. The pullout method does not protect against that.
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candita_sky
replied on June 27th, 2006
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Im sorry I do not understand this if you do not want to be a mom then why are you practicing unsafe sex??? The pull out method does not I repeat does not work you can become pregnant having un protected sex. Not to mention all the disease you can transfer or catch from one another. Use your brain girl go to the store and purchase a box of condoms and if you are to embarrassed to buy them then you are not old enough to have sex anyway.
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Mabel
replied on June 27th, 2006
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sadie lynn wrote:
im sorry I do not understand this if you do not want to be a mom then why are you practicing unsafe sex??? The pull out method does not I repeat does not work you can become pregnant having un protected sex. Not to mention all the disease you can transfer or catch from one another. Use your brain girl go to the store and purchase a box of condoms and if you are to embarrassed to buy them then you are not old enough to have sex anyway.


amen, sister! You are preaching to the choir!!

I could not have said it better myself. This is one of those 'what I wish I would have known' kind of things. Seriously, my 'pull out method' child is 20 years old now. If you think it can't happen to you, think again.

No doctor would ever say the pull out method was a form of birth control! In fact, you should never have unprotected sex (even the pull out method) unless you are planning on becoming pregnant.

Get some protection, girl!
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starlite
replied on June 27th, 2006
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Thanks, I totally understand now that I should always use protection and think carefully before I ever have sex again..I have also been cramping the past few days too.
I went to get tested today and im not pregnant..Thank god.
I was so scared and am now thoughtful before I do anything like that again.
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tall_wiccan_girl
replied on June 27th, 2006
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I agree with everyone here! If you don't want to be a mother, then why in god's name are you practicing unsafe sex? That's just a major duh on your part!

As to pulling out. It doesn't always work. There is a thing called pre-cum ( or pre-jaculation). Most the time the guy doesn't know it happens, and neither do you. So yes, you could have a chance of being prego!

But your stress factors may have something to do with a fluxulated period.

Use your head from now on hun!!
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