It sucks, people think that once you become an adult you dont need help/assistance anymore cause your mature enough to produce you can deal with the bs. In reality we all have difficultie the first month being the hardest, adjusting to a new kid/ life with kids is really bloody hard.
I was in the same sitiuation, im a little tight on money cause of the kids going through so much diapers, formula and having to buy to new wardrobes for both my kids since they grow so fast. What iffed me was that I have to pay to attend mom and kid groups or toddler day groups as to where moms under 18 dont have too. They say that becuase I am married im old enough to take care of these things im like really I pay life insurance for everyone, resp for the kids and im lucky to get a night out plus I work my off what makes me different age discrimination is disgusting some of us are all in the same boat!!
Good luck trying to find stuff thats why I rely on a few people here they provide me free heartfelt advice over paying someone who doesnt care!!