Joined: 08 Jun 2006 Posts: 16 Location: Canada Ontario
Don't Know What to Do!!! Posted: 06-27-06 16:36pm
I'm just gonna tell the whole story and
comments or feed back I would love to
hear, ok so I met this girl (brandy) we
had sex within 3 hours of meeting and it
was only suppose to be a week end thing,
(she also had sex with another guy the
previous weekend) so anyways, we hit it
off pretty good, so we met at her friends
cause she was from out of town, I really
liked this girl so I thought I would ask
her out before she left, I said "can I
keep you" and she almost cried and she
called her friend and stuff, but she did
say yes... So the next weekend I went
down their to her friends, cause her ex
husband was still at her house, so we
stayed at her ex's sisters place, then we
both moved in together at her ex's sisters
house for a month, then we got a house for
a month and we got into a big fight,
nothing physical, but the cops were called
and I went to jail for almost the whole
night, and was told not to talk with
brandy or her family or tanya (brandy's ex
husbands sister) so I couldn't go back to
my ouse without the cops, I made the calls
went back and got my stuff out, and 3 days
after me and her sister started talking,
then me and brandy got back together after
lots of crying and convinsing, oh yeah I
missed a big part, she got preggers like
right after we met acordding to the
doctors.
So were back together for almost 2 weeks
when she breaks it off cause we were
hiding this 2nd relationship from everyone
and I told her I understand, but evertime
I go to her place where she moved in with
her sister, it seems she either asks for
money, or sex, well for me to go down on
her, and when we were togetehr I did
everything I looked after her 1 year old
everyday and cooked supper for her 5 year
old for when he got home from school, I
cleaned, I did laundry I made out bed
every morning drove down town to do
shopping and arons for her, I stayed up
with the baby all night when he was sick
while she slept or flirted with guys on
the net, she knew it made me mad the she
was meeting guys on the net so anyways
back to where we lost our house cause of
the cops, I bought her a ring asked her to
marry me she said yes and then back to the
part where she called it off, so its been
about 3 months now since we not been
toether, and she got a dog back when we
were together, and the pound picked her up
and she knew I wanted the dog, but she
told me the pound gave her a way to a cop
dog training camp thing about 2 hours out
of town, I knew she was lying cause I
called the pound the day they were suppose
to put her down and she was still their
and the woman held her for me, cost me 100
bucks to get the dog out she was their so
long, and she used to always say have I
ever lied to you and I never really caught
her in a lie so I said no, finding out
anbout the dog I wrote her an email, and
she wrote if you think that then stay away
from me and stay out of my life and
everything, when I only goto see her when
she ask's me to, and she talks to this guy
on the phone lon distance now, and I was
laying beside her in bed when I swore I
heard her say "i love you under her
breath, she deny's it stright to my face,
and this was at 2 in the morning.So
anyways its 3 months after I went to jail,
and her parents are just starting to
figure out that we talk, and maybe stil
see each other, I just don't know what to
do at this point, I love this girl with
all my heart, i'm trying to let go but the
more I try the more it hurts... Hmmm...
What else.... I dunno, if I think of
something else i'll add it, please I need
some advice or help
ps not even 100% sure the child is mine,
i'm getting a perternity test done
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 387 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-27-06 22:05pm
She sounds like a totally nut job......Do
you really think the drama will
end?................If it's your baby,
fight for custody.
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Sarah020406
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 86
Posted: 06-27-06 23:07pm
Jezz she is definately screwwing you
around a bit!! My suggestion is to break
of the relationship (she obviously dosen't
want to be with you, and no one deserves
to be treated like that) but try and
remain friends for the babys sake, every
child deserves two loving parents but if
that is not possible then try for custody
of the baby. By the way start writing
down everything she does (bad stuff) with
regards to you and the baby, it may come
in handy if you decide to go for custody!!
Good luck with the paternity test I hope
you get the result you want. Let us know
how it goes.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Posted: 06-28-06 00:18am
If you let a one go and they come back it
may be worth fighting for but if they are
only coming back for one thing money and
sex then you may want to think about
dropping her. If you let her continue on
with her sheraids then she will end up
breaking your heart for good. Get the
test done to get the 100% percent answer
you deserve then choose your life course
from there and choose it wisely!!!!!
There is nothing like living with someone
and feeling used through out the rest of
your life to provide for them and only
them and recieve nothing in return!!!!!
You may have strong feelings for her but
she may not have the same for you. Love
should never be hidden it should be
shouted out from the mountain tops for all
to hear and if she is unwilling to do so
then I don't think her love is true. Good
luck and I hope all turns out well for
you.
