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Q: Being a Woman Can Be So Difficult!

asked by: Cha-Cha on June 29th, 2006

Experienced User

My boyfriend has been in hawii for like 2 weeks... And it feels like forever!!!! Lol sorry I just had to complain to someone... All we do is fight right now (lol I think it is because lack of sex! ) I feel just so emotional when he is gone.... Anyways, I went to the gyhno and we did a pelvic exam and she said my ovaries and uterous look fine ( I was kind of worried I was getting pelvic pains ) and also I had a huge pain during sex and she said it was probibly because of the positioning... Is it possible he is to big for me ( lol I know that sounds funny )

sorry I just had to complain to someone about my boyfriend!
Also I was just wondering why i/people get pains during sex... It felt like it was hitting something ( she said it was probibly him hitting the uterous and hitting it in the wrong spot) just wanted to know if anyone else goes through this...
Thanks : )
rachel

Replies(7)

Emma2

replied on June 30th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

If the gyno says all is okay than all is okay! Positioning has a lot to do with pain but the most common problem is not enough lubrication on your end.The pain is usually at the top of you vagina because penis is touching something , your cervix! It can be painful and irritating. Try using some lub if you feel discomfort. By the way there is no way he is hitting your uterus his penis cant get inside your cervix. I guess you never really saw a womans reproductive system. Google it youll understand what he is hitting.

Mabel

replied on June 30th, 2006

Moderator

He isn't hitting your uterus! He is bumping up against your cervix!!
If you check, you'll notice the cervix comes down a bit and how you are positioned will have an affect on how deeply he penetrates you and how close he gets to the cervix. That thing can get sore and painful if he hits is just right or just wrong as the case may be!

Uh...Too big? Probably not. More like needing to find the right position for you. ;)

good luck!

alexa84

replied on June 30th, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

I had the same problem with a guy I was dating when I was younger. But he had a bananna in his pants. Seriously it was shaped just like one. Ouch!!

BigCazzy

replied on June 30th, 2006

New User

Being a woman is a pain cos you can't pee up a wall! Let me try cos i'll pee anywhere just now! Uh oh made myself laugh so have to pee again

Bridget

replied on June 30th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

bigcazzy wrote:

being a woman is a pain cos you can't pee up a wall! Let me try cos i'll pee anywhere just now! Uh oh made myself laugh so have to pee again

every single post of yours involves peeing. I'm starting to think you're really a man with a urine fetish.

BigCazzy

replied on June 30th, 2006

New User

Nah hun im no man, I wish I was then I wouldn't be pregnant.

Cha-Cha

replied on June 30th, 2006

Experienced User

Hahaha!!! Im so sorry that was a major typo... ( lol ) I was on the phone with my friend and I was fully paying attention ( lol we were talking about the uterous hehehe )

lol thanks everyone ( im so blonde somtimes : b )

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