Husband had an Affair...how can I cope? Posted: 07-01-06 12:43pm
I had been with my husband for a total of
almost 10 yrs but we were only married for
almost 3 yrs. My husband recently had an
affair. He had the affair with this women
for only 1 mth b4 i found out and so i
kicked him out. He has only been seeing
this girl since Feb. but yet moved in
with her right away. He not only left me
but also our 2 yr old son. He claims
that he does not love me anymore. How can
he just move on with someone else like
that and throw away all our history? I
feel deep down that he still loves me
because i see it in his eyes. I just feel
that he thinks the "grass is greener" with
her. How do I cope since he's been gone
now for 3 months and i feel its getting
harder and harder. He just recently
picked up the rest of his things on our
3rd year anniversary. I just cant help
but feel he's made a mistake.
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Dealing With Divorce & Ending a Relationship Answer A1209 Posted: 07-18-06 02:40am
I sorry about your marriage but it seem to
me that you love him more than he loves
you. You can consult a marriage adviser
and a lawyer. You can also ask for help
from a psychologist or other mental health
professional in order to air your feelings
about the situation.
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