Joined: 01 Jul 2006 Posts: 2 Location: East Kilbride
Several Abortions? Why? Posted: 07-01-06 13:32pm
I don't want to get into a big argument
here I am not a religious person and could
myself never consider abortion. I have
been pregnant at 16 which resulted in a
heatbeaking miscarriage.
Anyway I can see why someone can feel an
abortion is the only option for them in
certain situations.
What I do not understand is why after
having one pregnancy which is not wanted
or planned and having an abortion do
people not take more care to ensure this
does not happen in future?
I hear of people who have 3 or more
abortions in my mind that can just not be
acceptable and is purely irresponsable
especially after a first and even second
'chance'.
Older people who are capabale of looking
after a child but just 'dont have the
time' or it 'doesnt feel right yet' also
annoy me but thats a different matter.
Anyone elses opinions on this I would be
interested to hear.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 07-01-06 17:52pm
Can I ask you , what gives you the right
to judge someone that has been raped,
gotten pregnant feels that she would be an
unfit mother, the fetus has missing organs
that cannot be replaced, would you rather
see that baby be born brought up without
love and the basics, neglected, abused
sexually and otherwise, be brought up in
filfth, beaten for no reasonother them yhe
mother has health issues that she cannot
control, just born to say it was born and
to have to decide when it is right to pull
the plug when you knew this was going to
happen before birth, sure, it could go to
an adoption home where there is no love
given. When you are walking in these
people's shoes, then you can say why as
accidents happens, rape happens, incest an
sex abuse happens. I ddo not like to see
multipke abortions either but some have
their reason's and it is not up to me to
judge them as I am not in their shoes but
I will stand by and understand and support
them as I do realize that their is a lot
of garbage that goes on in life. And
please do not take me wrong, I am not
hammering you, just wanting you to
understand that.
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Carifairy
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2005 Posts: 2599 Location: Charlotte n.c.
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Posted: 07-01-06 22:08pm
I have had 3 abortions, and I am also on
the most effective form of birth control
around..An iud... It is just as effective
as a tubal ligation.
I work in healthcare, I went to college,
but birth control still failed
'me'..Someone who is trained to know how
to use it... If it can fail me, it
certainly can fail anyone!
Nothing is 100%..And I am married btw, so
I not promiscuous..We as women have to
deal with the fact that we will not reach
menopause for many years, and until then
we can get pregnant! I am 24, and 50 is a
long ways away...
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Cambion
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2005 Posts: 748
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Posted: 07-01-06 23:19pm
I don't think I can say it better than
sandyallen. Women have their reasons for
aborting, whether they're carrying their
uncle's child or they just got too wrapped
up in the heat of the moment in the back
of their partner's car. If the woman
doesn't want the child and/or doesn't want
to be pregnant, then I think that's a
justifiable reason by itself to abort.
Think about it...If you had to deal with
some sort of health problem that could be
cured, would you not seek treatment?
Women who don't want to have children, be
it either for only a certain time span or
ever, see their unwanted pregnancy as a
sickness, not a "miracle".
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Moo
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Joined: 20 Feb 2006 Posts: 1048 Location: London
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Posted: 07-18-06 09:39am
What happened to all of the posts on this
topic?
I was still curious about some of the
original authors assumptions ??
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
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Posted: 07-19-06 13:21pm
They may have dissapeared when all recent
topic dissapeared. I believe
ehealthforum.Com had a database error.
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3717 Location: , va
Posted: 07-21-06 08:33am
Everything that had been posted for the
past 7 days from july 1 up to the restored
date has been lost. It was no ones fault.
Sorry for the inconvience.
