Someone?just Help Please, Miscarriage? Need Advice :( Posted: 07-16-06 06:36am
Ok ive posted in the miscarriage part and
teen pregnancy but no response.
I dont expect a proffesional doctor answer
from anyone but I would like advice and if
someone else has experienced this it would
be great if you could respond.
Right me and my boyfriend have been having
unprotected sex using the pull out method
for 4 months, yes I am aware that
pre-ejaculation can still get you
pregnant. But I am ready.
My periods can sometimes be a bit
irregular. This month my period was a
week late and I was gettin slight
pregnancy signs and symptoms and I just
felt as though I was pregnant. It was an
odd feeling. All through that week that I
was late I have cramps in my lower back,
and stomach. Then 3 days ago, I had a
spot of brown blood, and pink discharge I
got so excited. Cause I was almost
definit I was pregnant. Then yesterday I
started bleeding a bit more brown blood.
But then towards the afternoon it got more
red and I had a little lump of either
tissue or clot.
Today the bleeding slowed down and went
very faint for a while but then went back
a bit heavy :s I really dont know whats
going on. I have pain in my lower abdomen
also, but I may have ovary cysts as its a
genetic thing in my family... My mother,
my nan, my great nan have all had them,
and myself.
Have I miscarryed?
Also theres quite long dark red purpley
stringy bits..
My boyfriend says its what a placenta
looks like.
Has anyone ever had clots with a fine
pregnancy?
Any advice would be great thanks :)
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notpatient
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jun 2006 Posts: 92 Location: Florida
Posted: 07-16-06 18:12pm
From what I know, if you want to truly
know if you are or were pregnant, a hpt
would be fairly accurate a week late (even
after a miscarriage it would show positive
if you were in fact pregnant). Stress
over being late, or anxiety could cause a
late period. I can assure you there was
no placenta because that wouldn't have
formed anywhere near this early. My
opinion would be to take a test and see
what you're dealing with. Bleeding
doesn't necessarily mean a miscarriage has
happened, but if you find out your hpt is
positive, you need to schedule a doc.
Appointment immediately. If it's
negative, you're probably just having a
heavy period (stress, being late, all
factors that can make your flow change).
Keep us posted and good luck.
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220589
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2006 Posts: 14 Location: wales
Posted: 07-17-06 00:48am
The blood wasnt that heavy and now its the
3rd day of light bleeding, never happened
before, and scrapes and spots :s
i just wish I had all the answers right
now, cause hardly any blood is comin out
so im going to wait a few days
then take a hpt
thanks for ur help
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notpatient
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jun 2006 Posts: 92 Location: Florida
Posted: 07-17-06 09:32am
Awww- don't wait. Take a hpt because I
really think you might find out that you
never were pregnant. You're putting
yourself through a lot and you need to get
answers sooner than later. I will say
that I am 28 years old and when we started
trying, I noticed things I never noticed
before (and I have always been in tune
with my body). This may just be your
menstrual cycle, of course in response to
the stress you're most certainly under.
Of course, if it turns out you were in
fact pregnant, knowing is better because
it gives doctors more information so you
can get help and have a successful
pregnancy in the future. Good luck and
pease keep me posted.
