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nunupup
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2006
Posts: 4
Location: Ohio
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Telling Parents About Pregnancy
Posted: 07-21-06 10:37am
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Okay girls. I know it's hard to be a
teen and have to tell your parents that
you're going to have a baby. Sometimes
you put it off until you go into labour.
But it's just not right. Most of you
still live at home and are financially
dependant on your parents. You probably
have no idea how expensive a delivery and
caring a baby is. Isn't it only fair
that you tell the people who will be
financing your child's life?
Again, I understand that it's not easy to
tell your parents. Yes, they will be
disappointed. Yes, they may get angry.
But if you were them, wouldn't you rather
know well in advance so you can plan how
you're going to take care of the baby?
It certainly won't be you 14 year olds.
And no, i'm not mocking 14 year olds
having babies. caca happens. But you
can't afford to finance the child's life.
You can't even work. So tell your
parents, get that out of the way, and let
them help you. Do you understand
insurance? Do you understand that
certain doctors may not be covered by your
insurance? Certain hospitals? Co-pays?
Deductables? Probably not. So just
tell them already.
Thank you.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 07-21-06 15:23pm
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Okay first off..I am 18 ..Got pregnant at
17...And I paid for everything ..And still
do and yes I understand insurance and
bills and all that bs ..Because i've been
on my own sincei was 17 ..I never had my
parents throughout my pregnancy ..They
were killed 4 days before I found out I
was pregnant and if they were still alive
when I did find out ..I would have told
them right away..Because im mature and
responsible enough to take my punishment
for the things I do in life..Everyone
makes mistakes and I kind of think your
post was pointless...Because we all know
this..There arent many 14 years olds on
here that are pregnant or have
children...But maybe one or two..Most the
ones that do come on here that are like
omg I think im preggo and I havent told my
parents are newbies..That will never post
again..
I hate when people come here and post ..To
try and stick all "teen mothers" in the
same boat...Yeah some of the are
irresponsible..And childish...But most of
us on here with children..Love them very
much and take care of them ourselves..So
maybe you should have gotten to know the
mothers here ..Instead of assuming that we
are all stupid and bum off our parents to
get money for our children..Sorry im being
rude but this post just made me very
mad..So get lost you sh*tface
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 07-21-06 15:24pm
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Oh yeah forgot to add ..No thank you..
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 07-21-06 22:06pm
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I agree with jillian. You don't know
every teenage mother, therefore you should
not judge them. Every situation has
different circumstances and as .Jillian
said, you can't just put them all in one
boat. You should have gotten to know the
teen mothers in here. They are complete
opposite of what you said. Don't try to
be a know it all.....They aren't tolerated
well around here.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 07-21-06 23:46pm
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Strike 2...Strike 3 ..Yourrr outtttt
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 07-22-06 00:07am
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Lol I was gonna do that earlier jillian
haha but I got kicked offline so I didnt
get the chance. :p silly
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 07-22-06 00:17am
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Haha I beat you!!
Girl where have you been you never post
anymore..Heck noone does ..
I hardly ever see d or anyone...
Me and sandra and mel and michelle are the
only ones I have been seeing lurking
around here !!
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ThriftyGal
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Joined: 21 Apr 2006
Posts: 2982
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 07-22-06 06:37am
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I'm going to play along with your
generalizations here. Well since every
single one of us is 14 and apparently
among us there were cases of waiting until
labour to reveal pregnancy, we must also
all have sightless imbecilic parents.
(just like your reasoning claims we must
all be 14, and some of us must have put
off revealing our pregnancies until
labour, my reasoning says there is no
other type of person besides a sightless
imbecile from who pregnancy can be
concealed that long. Wow... At least my
reasoning is actually tangible.) here
your theory falls through though. If we
are those things, and therefore must have
sightless imbecilic parents, how are we
also undoubtedly going to depend on them
to support our babies? I don't know too
many blind idiots making enough money to
support babies. Why are you such a dolt?
And what the hell is a nunupup? And
why don't you do something else with your
empty life other than wasting your time
harassing teenage mothers you don't know?
(like you and emma both admitted to doing
on the pregnancy side in other forums).
It's pathetic. You don't sound clever or
witty, you haven't made us look or feel
stupid. You have only embarrassed
yourself for having sunk to this level.
You've only made your own life look empty
and sad. You aren't better than us, the
immaturity of doing something such as
posting the rubbish you did proves that.
I know teen parents (yes, the people you
are insulting like you are so much
greater) who have more self respect and
sense than to ever post something as
stupid as you did. You aren't better
than us, just older. And that child
inside of you isn't any better than our
children because you have a few years on
us. The fact that we're young and might
have financial trouble doesn't hinder our
children from possibly exceeding your
child in school, sports, and life in all
aspect in the future. This place we are
at right now, which people like you seem
to love to attack, isn't at all a
foresight into our futures. And chances
are a lot of teen parents are going to end
up doing better in life and being happier
than you are right now sitting there on
your self-righteous pedestal looking down
on us with your condescending "advice".
No one feel stupid, no one thinks you
sounded witty or clever (except maybe
emma). Infact I feel sorry for you.
Very pathetic. It doesn't take a lot of
courage to kick a horse when it is down.
That is what you are doing. Harassing
teens while they are in a bad place and
having a hard time doesn't take much
bravery. You just look like a coward by
what you have posted. What will it look
like when we have overcome all the
struggles we are facing now, we have
finished university, have become
completely independent, got good jobs, and
we are better for the hardships we
overcame and you are still sitting on your
computer harassing the next generation of
teen parents? Please look at yourself, I
feel really sorry for you.
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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DaliciaLynn
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Joined: 29 Jul 2005
Posts: 2322
Location: Missouri
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Posted: 07-22-06 22:20pm
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This is off topic but jillian
the reason why i'm not on anymore is
because someone stole brayden's photos and
posted them on another forum & had
alittle website about him with my photos
on it too. I got them both deleted and it
kinda scared me a bit which is why I
haven't been on & posting much.
Bray's photos will no longer be posted on
this website anymore!
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 07-22-06 22:23pm
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Oh gosh...I hope noone has stole
jaces...That is scary ..I think im going
to stop now...
Gosh whats up with people these days...
I missed you ho...I was wondering what was
going on!!
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 07-22-06 22:30pm
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I guess I am going to just give my pics to
the ones of you I trust from now on..
Thats scary
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ThriftyGal
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Joined: 21 Apr 2006
Posts: 2982
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 07-22-06 23:14pm
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Yeah... That's weird. You guys should
just post pictures on whp, I think it's
pretty safe over there.
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DaliciaLynn
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Joined: 29 Jul 2005
Posts: 2322
Location: Missouri
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Posted: 07-22-06 23:30pm
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I am on another forum that I don't post on
at all, and this girl named a topic
"brayden and i" and I was like omg that's
cool her baby's name is brayden too and
when I clicked on the link I was like holy
sh*t. She also had a website about us
both, chris, me & brayden.
Talk about psycho lol
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cherry88
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006
Posts: 633
Location: ,
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Posted: 07-22-06 23:54pm
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Holy sh*t. People these days. I wondered
where you went d! How is bray doing?
:)
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DaliciaLynn
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Joined: 29 Jul 2005
Posts: 2322
Location: Missouri
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Posted: 07-23-06 00:29am
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He is doing good, growing like a weed.
Thanks for asking.
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 07-24-06 16:39pm
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| dalicialynn
wrote: | i am on another forum that I
don't post on at all, and this girl named
a topic "brayden and i" and I was like omg
that's cool her baby's name is brayden too
and when I clicked on the link I was like
holy sh*t. She also had a website about
us both, chris, me & brayden.
Talk about psycho
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i would be driving to whoop someone's
as*..Haha nah dont waste your time...I am
going to start putting my name on
pictures...Or something--i hate
weirdos..People need to get lives in this
world and stop faking..
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