Is This 'dumpworthy' Or Not? Posted: 07-22-06 09:47am
I have been dating a lady for two months
and we have been sexually intimate for
most of that time.However she told me that
there is another guy who is interested in
her, but she has not sexual interest in
him eeeven thopugh he has expressed his
love for her.. They occasionally see each
other. Lets call him tony.
She invited me round to her house last
asaturday to "have sex in her big bed".
She was a little tipsyat the time. So I
went round and we did it. She gets out of
bed and hour later to go to the bathroom
and her cell rings .She picks up and
says."hello." and then disappears out of
the room and walks quickly down the hall
to have a conversation outside my hearing.
She ccomes back 10 minutes later. My
radar is 'bleepin'.
We go out for dinner that same night and I
raise the topic of the phone call. She
says, " it was tony calling and he asked
me out for coffee tomorrow afternoon at
4:30pm . I said yes. I would go. "
i feel a tad annoyed. She just had sex
with me and still in the afterglow.
She answers a call from a guy who is
chasing her aand she agrees to go on a
date with him tomorrow?
Whats wrong with this picture. Should I
just get over it and accept that this
stuff goes on today or should I push
'delete' on her.
Jophil.
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Paranoid_Girl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 13 Location: United States
Something Isnt Right! Posted: 07-26-06 23:08pm
Hello jophil,
well to me it sounds like this lady dosnt
know what she wants! I think having a
talk with her would help. Ask her what
she wants, that she cant just play with
your feelings like a puppet! If she still
dosnt know what she wants and you truly
love her, support her in her decision but
maybe hold back on the physical
relationship until she has made up her
mind. I also wonder if tony knows about
you? Does he know that she has sex with
you along with dating him? Ask her if he
knows and how he feels about the
situation. I hope you make the right
decision and everything goes well.
<3 kelly
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nightangel73
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Posted: 07-26-06 23:21pm
I would dump her in a ny minute. Listen
what your gut tells you is what is right,
trust me. You feel is not right and it is
not!
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 07-27-06 15:05pm
nightangel73
wrote:
i would dump her in a ny
minute. Listen what your gut tells you
is what is right, trust me. You feel is
not right and it is
not!
yeah I agree.It sounds
like she's trying to have 2 in one.Someone
to play with and someone to love.Forget
her cause if she liked you she would be
with you.Does she know you like her like
that or does she just think your her toy?
