Joined: 09 Oct 2004 Posts: 52 Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Bleeding During Intercourse Posted: 07-22-06 14:13pm
My boyfriend and I tried intercourse
against a wall last sunday night.
Afterwards and after we moved to the
floor, we discovered that I had bled. It
started against the wall since we found
blood there. We just figured it was due
to the position and the roughness. We had
sex again last night (friday) and it
didn't last that long (he came after,
like, 2 minutes!). I went to the bathroom
to do the post-sex urination and
discovered a little bit of blood. This
was, perhaps, our 13th time. Do you think
it's just that something tore sunday night
and reopened last night? I've tried
researching and cervicitis seems to be the
most common cause of this. I don't have
the time, money or spirit to struggle with
insurance to go to the doctor right now,
though that's probably the best thing,
right? I'm worried that something else
might be wrong as well. I donno what, but
you never know. My boyfriend just really,
really wants me to see a doctor pronto,
but I always prefer to wait things out for
a little while and see what happens, if
things do or do not get better. Anything
I could tell him to get him to calm down
about my seeing someone? Some dashing
statistic to give me a little time?
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frizzy_locks
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Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 12
Posted: 07-22-06 16:14pm
I am in a similar(ish) position. I had
sex for the first time and didn't really
bleed at all. The second time (the next
day) it was slightly rougher and different
positions and I bled quite a lot. Then
the third time (about 2 days later) we had
fairly gently sex since I was still fairly
sore after the last time and I didn't
bleed during intercourse but woke up the
next day to find a fair amount of blood in
my underwear.
I am worried cos I thought virgins should
only bleed on the first time, or maybe
even second but so far its seemed like its
more each time.
Sorry no answers to your query but thought
mine was fairly similar to also share with
you.
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-22-06 16:21pm
To the original poster: this is more than
likely from your boyfriend bumping up
against your cervix. Why would you have
to fight with your insurance to get a
physical/pap smear done? Those are yearly
exams that insurances always cover. If
you aren't on birth control and would like
to be, you can go to planned parenthood
and may be able to get the pap test done
for free. However, since you are now
sexually active, you need to get a test
done every year.
To the second poster: you were a virgin
and there are no hard and fast rules that
apply to bleeding as a virgin. Everyone's
body is different. Once your *area*
heals, this should clear up on it's own.
The same advice applies to you too. You
now need to get pap smears every year and
get yourself some birth control.
To both of you: make sure your partner
always wears a condom regardless of your
birth control choices.
