Me and my girlfriend recently had "dry
sex" by that I mean we both had our
underwear on but we did rub up against and
such... I didn't ejaculate but im
positive there was precum. Could the
precum have gotten through her underwear?
It wasnt for very long, but we're both
just very worried and are not ready for
anything like this. Please help, thanks.
Just some scared guy :cry:
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-25-06 12:38pm
No. The underwear are pretty much a
barrier to the pre-cum. It would be
virtually impossible for it to go through
your underwear, through her underwear and
find the appropriate way to the egg.
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Scared_Guy
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Posted: 07-25-06 12:42pm
I thought so too, but we had called a lot
of medical centers just for information,
and almost every single one of them said
that it is possible.
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-25-06 12:47pm
They said a pre-cum pregnancy was
possible. They did not say it would go
through your underwear and her underwear
and get her pregnant.
The only way a pre-cum pregnancy is
possible is if you are inside her and the
sperm have access to the egg. In this
case, the sperm wouldn't even know which
way to go!
Is she late on her period? How late? Has
she taken a pregnancy test?
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Scared_Guy
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Posted: 07-25-06 12:53pm
She isnt due for her period for another
1-2 weeks I think, and no she hasnt taken
a pregnancy test.
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-25-06 12:57pm
Well, good luck. I don't think there is
any risk of pregnancy, so relax ;)
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Scared_Guy
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Posted: 07-25-06 12:58pm
Hah thank you, we just tend to worry too
much, but then again this is a pretty
serious subject. Thanks again.
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-25-06 12:59pm
It is a serious subject. Get condoms if
you are worried about the future.
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Scared_Guy
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Posted: 07-25-06 13:08pm
No I think ive learned my lesson, im not
even this type of person, im surprised it
even happened. Just isnt the right time
in my life. Getting condoms would almost
be like... Saying its going to happen
again. I never want to be this scared
again haha.. So I dont think ill be doing
that anytime soon. If I have any more
questions ill come back though, you were
extremely helpful, thank you so much.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 07-25-06 13:25pm
scared_guy
wrote:
no I think ive learned my
lesson, im not even this type of person,
im surprised it even happened. Just isnt
the right time in my life. Getting
condoms would almost be like... Saying
its going to happen again. I never want
to be this scared again haha.. So I dont
think ill be doing that anytime soon. If
I have any more questions ill come back
though, you were extremely helpful, thank
you so much.
in spite of your best intentions it may
happen again. Human beings are sometimes
more animal in nature. Instead of not
taking precautions because you are
sure that it won't happen again
(never say never and all that rot) maybe
you should go ahead and get them just so
you're prepared (an ounce of prevention is
worth a pound of cure). A lot of cliches
here...But you know the most annoying
thing about cliches is that they're
usually true... Well, good luck!
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Scared_Guy
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Posted: 07-25-06 13:36pm
I guess its a good thing to be cautious..
Idk it might be good to just have them,
but I dont want that to be a temptation.
I honestly plan on saving myself for
marriage.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 07-25-06 13:42pm
scared_guy
wrote:
i guess its a good thing to
be cautious.. Idk it might be good to
just have them, but I dont want that to be
a temptation. I honestly plan on saving
myself for
marriage.
well, you know yourself best :wink: so
while I can give advice it's you that has
to make the decision, don't worry, though.
I'm sure you'll do what's best for you.
And if you believe that buying condoms
will "lead you into temptation" then by
all means don't buy them. But if the
situation starts to look like it's going
to go that way again please don't do
anything without a condom since you know
you're not ready for the possible
consequences. Again, good luck to you!
