I lost her and I know that I should be in
the depression section but I dont want to
live anymore, I was living for someone
else for so long I dont know what to do.
I feel like I have nothign left, she was
the only one to make me happy. I wish I
knew what to do but all I can do is go
back to cutting. Someone plz help me
:( :cry:
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mongirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 93 Location: Michigan
Posted: 07-28-06 12:31pm
Oh dont say that. Ending your life is
never ever the anwser because its a
permant solution to a problem that wont
last forever. You dont want to waste your
precious life just because a woman wasnt
the right person for you. I know its hard
because ive been there but you have to
think positivly because there is someone
out there for you who will love you
unconditionally no matter what. The woman
who you lost was not the person your meant
to be with. Just remember everything
happens for a reason and getting over this
is going to be hard but its not the end of
the world even if it feels that way.
Everything will work out. Just dont let
this bump in the road stop you.
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Paranoid_Girl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 13 Location: United States
Monogirl Is Absolutly Right! Posted: 07-28-06 22:43pm
"ending your life is never ever the anwser
because its a permant solution to a
problem that wont last forever."
monogirl is right, you shouldnt take that
road!!! I dont mean to press on but why
did she leave you? Perhaps we could help
you but, we may need to know alittle more
about the situation. Just dont hurt
yourself please!! Its not the answer!
<3kelly
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joselitodude
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Apr 2006 Posts: 6
Posted: 07-29-06 12:43pm
Well everything was fine, I left for
washington to work and she kept telling me
she missed me a lot. So I come home and
and then she comes home from a cruise. So
now she has got about 5 guys talking to
her non stop. So when ever I was with
her, she put me on the back burner so she
could text these guys. Now I would like
to know how would someone get such a good
relationship on a cruise that fast. Its
only about a week long so im just
wondering that. So things were weird and
I wondered. So I asked her if things were
ok? And if she still wanted to be with
me. But I guess not. She didnt feel like
she had a boyfriend after I left for wa.
Not sure when but it was around that time
when it hit her. So I guess she just
wanted to be free in a way, not be tied
down. She would rather go and be with
other friends, meet new people and all
that stuff. But I just don get how she
didnt see that I gave that to her in the
first place. I never made her always be
with me in her free time. I told her to
go be with them cuz friends are one of the
most important things in life. So I guess
several reasons made her not want to be
with me and you know the other day she
told me its going to take time to get over
me. Now to me that was a slap in the face
so I bet you can see how bummed I got.
But one night when we were apart, she
kissed me and told me she missed me and
that stuff. So I know she still loves me
but she told me that she has a different
happy now but she will always care.
And im not hurting myself, I have been
talking to some people and getting some
help. Its helping a little but I still
have that urge to cut
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yogahoneybunny
Supporter
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 878 Location: Strumica, Macedonia
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Posted: 07-29-06 13:07pm
Jose,
listen. I think that she's just not that
into you. You seem very kind and big
hearted and deserve more than being
second...To whatever...Be it friends,
works, a cruise, whatever. You can find
love elsewhere, but first you've got to
find it in your own heart.
That was the best thing I did for myself.
I remember feeling the way that you did.
Now, i'm engaged to a wonderful man, and
not dependent upon him for feeling good
about myself. We share our good and bad
times, but are both responsible for our
own emotional health. If that's what you
want, you may want to explore being
alone.
It's hard, I know. But breaking
connection with someone who is not our
highest possible love can be very
positive. It takes a little faith and a
lot of courage. If I could do it, you
can, too.
