Melissa_20
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Another Question. . .
Posted: 07-26-06 14:16pm
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Ok girls.Do you get mad if your b/f
masturbates? I mean not all the time,just
when he is too tired to have sex(after
work) and wants a quickie? Jerrid has
never done that beofre but since i'm sorta
raggin and hes horny and tired he said
he's gonna jerk off and get it over with.
Should I be bothered by that?
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:20pm
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No actually it's a completely normal and
ok thing to do and there are some men (2
minute men) who should actually wack-off
so we could have some pleasure! Lol
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:22pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | no actually it's a
completely normal and ok thing to do and
there are some men (2 minute men) who
should actually wack-off so we could have
some pleasure!
Lol |
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:23pm
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Hahaha. Is that your name for it or it's
name?? It's like the rabbitt?? Lol
not laughing at you mel, with you. With
you. :p
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:23pm
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Why would it bother you? ...My guy doesnt
care if im on my period, it doesnt put him
off he still wants sex....Eew I know.
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:25pm
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Oh I see what you mean now, dont think you
should be bothered like that though. Like
blaze said, its normal.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:28pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | hahaha. Is that your
name for it or it's name?? It's like
the rabbitt?? Lol not laughing at you
mel, with you. With you.
:p |
| allie_18
wrote: | | my guy doesnt care if im on
my period, it doesnt put him off he still
wants sex....Eew I
know. |
he doesn't mind outside of the fact that
it makes a big fat mess. And it bothers
me(the masturbation thing) cause it just
makes me feel like he doesn't need me.I
guess also none of my x's did it. . .I
guess I wont be bothered then
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:33pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | hahaha. Is that your
name for it or it's name?? It's like
the rabbitt?? Lol not laughing at
you mel, with you. With you.
:p |
| allie_18
wrote: | | my guy doesnt care if im on
my period, it doesnt put him off he still
wants sex....Eew I
know. |
he doesn't mind outside of the fact that
it makes a big fat mess. And it bothers
me(the masturbation thing) cause it just
makes me feel like he doesn't need me.I
guess also none of my x's did it. .
.I guess I wont be bothered
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oh, your ex's did it - they just didn't
tell you.
As far as I can tell, men think about sex
approximately .A.L.L the time. The
masturbation thing is normal. And if he
didn't 'need' you, he'd be all alone,
hanging out in the bathroom instead of in
bed with you. Guys just think about sex
differently than we do. Their idea isn't
romantic or a special closeness, their
views on sex are more base and raw.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:36pm
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| ingi
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | hahaha. Is that your
name for it or it's name?? It's like
the rabbitt?? Lol not laughing at
you mel, with you. With you.
:p |
| allie_18
wrote: | | my guy doesnt care if im on
my period, it doesnt put him off he still
wants sex....Eew I
know. |
he doesn't mind outside of the fact that
it makes a big fat mess. And it
bothers me(the masturbation thing) cause
it just makes me feel like he doesn't need
me.I guess also none of my x's did it.
. .I guess I wont be bothered
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oh, your ex's did it - they just didn't
tell you.
As far as I can tell, men think about sex
approximately .A.L.L the time. The
masturbation thing is normal. And if he
didn't 'need' you, he'd be all alone,
hanging out in the bathroom instead of in
bed with you. Guys just think about sex
differently than we do. Their idea isn't
romantic or a special closeness, their
views on sex are more base and
raw. |
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:37pm
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Lmao! Because they are aliens!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 07-26-06 14:40pm
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Lol,well I feel better knowing that!
Thanks
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 07-26-06 15:43pm
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I don't have a man! But speaking of
masturbation i'm going to go buy a
vibrator soon... I'm done with males.
I know me and one of my ex's had a no
masturbating rule, but I changed my mind
because we were together for like 2 years
and eventually it became too much sex. I
don't know but I find I tire of sex pretty
easy.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 07-26-06 15:43pm
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I feel the same way, lol. I tell .Rob, if
we cant do it if im like, not feeling well
or something, then his rocks are just
gunna have to sit there, cuz I hate the
thought of him shootin off in the toilet
or shower or something. It makes me
feel... Yeah, useless.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 07-26-06 16:50pm
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I hate masterbation. Well masterbation w/
your partner is one thing. Doing it
alone, is def. A no go!!
Porn is another thing I forbid!! I don't
need .M.Y man watching another females
p*ssy and getting off on it. Ya know? I
don't watch big penis, so I don't want him
watching nasty h*es.
Call me old fashioned, I just don't
appreciate it. It's totally disrespectful
to me.
Sarah
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-26-06 16:55pm
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I think masturbation is different than
pornography. However, I don't tell my
husband what to do. Telling him what to
do will only work as long as it works, but
when he decides to do it...Well...You know
how it goes.
He always comes home to me. We've been
together 12 years and never fight. It
just isn't an issue for us, at all. He is
who he is and I like who he is. I
wouldn't want to tell him who to be.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 07-26-06 16:55pm
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I'm probably a total freak, but...
Pregnancy has turned my sex drive 100%
off. It's shut down completely. We've
only recently begun having sex again, and
that's only because I hope it'll help
progress the labor bits. I can't even
count how many times my husband has begged
me for sex and i've replied "you have
opposable thumbs, and you learned how to
handle yourself when you were 13. The
bathroom's that way." then again, we've
been together for 8 years now, so i'm not
too touchy about him not wanting me. When
I want him, I get him. :p *evil cackle*
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-26-06 16:58pm
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| ayamiyaki
wrote: | | i'm probably a total freak,
but... Pregnancy has turned my sex drive
100% off. It's shut down completely.
We've only recently begun having sex
again, and that's only because I hope
it'll help progress the labor bits. I
can't even count how many times my husband
has begged me for sex and i've replied
"you have opposable thumbs, and you
learned how to handle yourself when you
were 13. The bathroom's that way." then
again, we've been together for 8 years
now, so i'm not too touchy about him not
wanting me. When I want him, I get him.
:p *evil
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hehe ;)
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 07-26-06 18:57pm
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I've never had that problem mel, but you
could always try to help him out if you
know what I mean, it's a good way of being
apart of it instead of feeling like he
doesn't need you.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Posted: 07-26-06 19:32pm
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Thats one problem I dont have with
jonathan...If we dont have sex..He always
ask me to jack him off..Which is perfectly
fine with me ..Because our relationship
has always been open like that...But as
for porn...It kind of makes me a little
mad when I find it on the computer...But I
never see him do it lately...Because I
talked to him about it..And he
understood..--but every once in a while is
fine--just not every night of the week...
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