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realbabe
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2004
Posts: 8
Location: chester
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Should I Stay With Him Or Not!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 01-17-04 19:54pm
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I'm dating my boyfriend now for a year it
he's been with this other gurl for 5 years
and I told him to choose so he stopped for
a while now he's back doing the samething.
I love him and he's great with my child
but I dont know how long I can take it.
It feels like im sharing him wit another
gurl I dont want to loose him so what
should I do? 
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 375
Location: georgia
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Posted: 01-18-04 14:52pm
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He is totally not worth it. He will
continue to play these games because he
know he can. Especially if you and the
girl know about each other and your not
doing anything about it just hanging on to
him. He doesnt care about you leave him
alone. I know its hard to walk away but
its the best thing you can do for
yourself.
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realbabe
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2004
Posts: 8
Location: chester
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Thanks
Posted: 01-18-04 19:02pm
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That you cuz your the only person that
responded to me and I will take your
advise and try to get over him
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Re: Should I Stay With Him Or Not!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 01-29-04 10:52am
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| realbabe
wrote: | | i'm dating my boyfriend now
for a year it he's been with this other
gurl for 5 years and I told him to choose
so he stopped for a while now he's back
doing the samething. I love him and
he's great with my child but I dont know
how long I can take it. It feels like
im sharing him wit another gurl I dont
want to loose him so what should I do?
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hi there,
how are ya?
If you asked him to choose I guess he
did.
And I don't think from what you wrote that
he is good to you or your child.
You were or are sharing.You deserve more
and so does your child.
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fairysweetie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Feb 2004
Posts: 17
Location: canada
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There Either Whales Or Bears Sweeties
Posted: 02-15-04 02:57am
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Listen sweetie, you're either a whale or
bear, one or the other. Bears are
wonderful creatures, but when it comes
time for spring, they'll mate as much as
they can. A bear can't help it , it's in
his nature. A whale on the other hand
mates for life. The key question is to
find out what your're willing to live
with, figure out what your guy is, and
then listen to your heart...... I read
this soemwhere, i've also been in your
shoes, my guy was a bear, and for many
years I blinded myself into thinking that
I could convert hime into a whale. Truth
was I couldn't change him no more that if
I wanted to make the stars fade to
nothing. For myself, personaly, I believe
I deserve the whale. Hope a little
insight gives you something to think.
Only you will be able to make he choice.
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KariM18
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Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 04-02-04 11:17am
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U both deserve way better. If he thinks
he can do this to u , then he doesnt
deserve u. U have to remember this! I
know its hard.. But u have to do whats
best for u and your kid in the long run!
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Lula
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 May 2004
Posts: 5
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Posted: 05-29-04 01:45am
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I think your sould focus on what is good
for your future and for your child. You
can't live off of love. This guy
obviously doen't care about you or your
child. I hope you can move on to someone
who deserves your love. Good luck!
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blackkittykatx6x
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 May 2004
Posts: 19
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Don't Play Yourself Girl
Posted: 05-30-04 07:00am
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Look i'm telling you this through
experience...Don't mess with
him...Obviously he isn't committed to you.
I'm sure you could find someone that will
only love you and not want anybody else.
You say that you love him, although you
love him you have to let him go. I'm not
trying to sound mean so please don't think
that, I think you should brake this thing
off before you get deeper into it. I'm
sorry that this is happening to you.
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jazzie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jun 2004
Posts: 7
Location: jefferson ohio
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Posted: 06-20-04 17:38pm
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Hey hun I sorta know what your going
through..... My advice is look for
someone new ...I know its really hard but
you have to work at it ..Its not going to
be easy but if u try its possible. What
worked with me isthis ...You dont know how
bad u really have it till you find someone
3 times better look 4 a nother guy and it
will be alot easier to leave him than
doing it alone .I had almost the same
problem only my b/f beat me and threatened
me ..I found someone better,only I was
still inlove with the other guy my b/f now
helped me let go of him because I fell 4
him hard ...When you love someone new you
dont feel as bad for the old ....Your love
will never fully go away for him but for
the most part it will ....Please e-mail me
we have some in common and I would like to
chat with you 
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ti kanies
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2004
Posts: 4
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Are You Insane
Posted: 06-26-04 21:31pm
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Girl get him out of your life. Men like
him are evil. Let me tell you his not
worth it and he is doing everything in his
power to make you think he is worth having
around,. I.E being good to your child.
He cant make up his mind between two
laides is crap, he is getting sex from
both of you, and he needs medication as I
think he is messed up and you dont need
his crap. Please show him my reply. And
my message to him is "did you have
problems in your childhood that needs
addressing because people like you need to
be locked up and contemplate suicide" u
prick
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ti kanies
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2004
Posts: 4
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Are You Insane
Posted: 06-26-04 21:32pm
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Girl get him out of your life. Men like
him are evil. Let me tell you his not
worth it and he is doing everything in his
power to make you think he is worth having
around,. I.E being good to your child.
He cant make up his mind between two
laides is crap, he is getting sex from
both of you, and he needs medication as I
think he is messed up and you dont need
his crap. Please show him my reply. And
my message to him is "did you have
problems in your childhood that needs
addressing because people like you need to
be locked up and contemplate suicide" u
prick
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 4580
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Posted: 06-26-04 22:28pm
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Yes, you love him and you always will, but
you need to move on because I am sure you
have no respect for him and it definitely
sounds like he does not have any respect
for you, and that is the main thing. It
is your choice only and I hope you make
the right one!
Sincerely,
sandy
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Pilleus
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Posted: 07-02-04 13:28pm
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Move on and find someone who loves you
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