Hi everyone...Ok so here is my situation.
I am 20 and will be 21 in october. My bf
is 27 will be 28 soon. We both want to
try for a baby. I know that this should
be all our decision but because of the
fact that we are not yet engaged or
married I am afraid if I do become
pregnant my family will be upset. We are
planning on getting married but just not
right now. Has anyone else been in this
situation? ?
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chantigeek
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Aug 2006 Posts: 83 Location: ontario, canada
Posted: 08-03-06 23:27pm
Hello,
i am 22 and my bf of 6 and half years have
recently started to stop using birth
control and see what happens. If we get
pregnant we will be very happy. I am in
the same boat as you though, even though
our families both like us I think they
would freak to find out that we are
basically trying, because we are so young
and not married and what not. But I
think that if you love your bf and if
marriage is not what is in plans right
now, you shouldnt worry so much what your
family will say, they will probably get
over it (hopefully). I know that we dont
really want to get married at this time
either, and whats the rush. Sorry for
gabbing, if you feel ready and your bf
feels ready to have a baby then your
family will have to respect your
decision.
