Hi, im 17 and the girl who im in love with
is 14, is this too young of a
relationship? We are not going out as of
now but I think it might happen soon..
But im not sure if the age difference is
too far apart! Thanx!
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Scared_Guy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 9
Posted: 07-30-06 00:00am
A lot of people have many different views
on this subject, I honestly think that if
you believe your serious about your
relationship and feel as if there's love
there that an age difference should not
matter at all. My girlfriend is almost 2
years older than me and it isn't a problem
at all. The only thing I would say is
make sure its ok with her parents. Other
than that, good luck. Hope I could have
helped a little.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 08-01-06 08:30am
The age gap isn't much but she is a little
young to be in a real relationship in my
eyes.Like scary guy said,make sure her
parents approve of it.Why would you want a
14 year old anyway?
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ergit
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 08-04-06 12:29pm
Yah I do kinda agree.. I mean it may not
b a problem.. Now.. But once ur 18 it
will b.. The hole illegal thing.. B
careful.
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Kgirl16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2005 Posts: 133 Location: Canada
Posted: 08-15-06 22:46pm
When I was 14 my boyfriend was 17 and I
can still confidently say it was the best
time of my life. Our maturity level was
equal, we had a lot in common, and
everything was great. Mind you he was 16
for many of the months but still.
It's actually becoming fact that girls
mature 3 years faster than males,
therefore in mental conditions, they would
be the same age. He doesn't want a 14
year old because he wants a 14 year old,
he wants her because he's in love with who
she is.
I say go for it
i've always been a sucker for older guys
myself anyhow, just make sure her parents
know.
Good luck brother :)
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lilpinoy52
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 12
Posted: 02-12-07 22:49pm
Well i've been wondering about this
question for a really long time now.
I've wondered about the whole 2-3 year age
difference and wuthnot. See i've asked my
friend and most of them say its just
really gross or weird well cuz of the
stupid age difference. But I really dont
get it because my parent's age difference
is like 10 years apart which means that my
2-3 years is nothing compared to that and
they're married. Apparently its not wrong
if your an adult. Well i've come up with
3 decisions.
1.) I could wait till shes 18 and im 21
and we can be happy together.
2.) ask her out now and not care what my
friends say.
3.) just stay friends and hope the
feelings will subside.
