Duration? For a New Couples Posted: 01-18-04 21:02pm
I am 31 and my husband is 33 and we
marriaged since last september and we are
planning to have a baby..It is almost 4
months we are trying to have a baby but
now I still dont have any news ...Should I
go to check a doctor after 6 months of
trying?? Or I should wait for a couple of
months again ??? I never consume or using
any pills before...Please help
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 01-18-04 21:26pm
I tried for a little over five months b4 I
got pregnant, and now im pregnant with a
healthy little baby...Its just slower for
some women..Hang in there and god bless
u!
Jordan
june 23
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caracook
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004 Posts: 464 Location: Richmond, KY
Posted: 01-18-04 21:49pm
My fiance and I have been together for 2
years. I've never been on birth control
or used protection in those 2 years. I've
never been pregnant. I wasn't charting my
temperature or cm, never calculated
ovulation, and we don't really have a lot
of sex. Does that mean i'm infertile or
he is? We're trying this month but I
think I ovulated early. Good luck to you.
From what I hear most doctors won't see
you until you've been trying for over a
year unless you're over 35. I'm sure some
will but I just heard they won't until
you've waited. Write a journal about what
you're trying, how you feel each month and
just everything you can think of so it's
easier for your doctor to get an idea of
what could be wrong.
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Guest
Guest
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Hi there~
most doc. Won't see you until after a
year (some more) of trying.
Keep records dates speciffis of periods,if
your ovulating~ times you had intercourse
and at least 6 months worth.
Use ovulation kits to track if your
ovulating.
If you want to get pregnant soon it's good
to know what's happening with your body.
See for mee it takes along time this one
took over 2 years and I keep
track of everything.
After a year of keeping track and knowing
that you have ovulated
most doc's will also check man's sperm
count to rule that out and then look at
the female and their cycles etc.
So good luck and keep positive.
A good book to get it~~ getting
pregnant~~.. What couples need to know
right now.
It is very good on many things to do with
it all!!!
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Guest
Guest
Cara Posted: 01-18-04 21:56pm
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it sounds as maybe you need to do some
charting be more aware
of whats happening in your cycles and I
hate to say it but sex sex sex
is a good idea!!! Cause if your not
haveing a lot of sex it's hard enough
sometimes to get it on the dot to get
pregnant and if your not well thats not
very good odds!!
Are you trying to get pregnant or not
really?
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caracook
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004 Posts: 464 Location: Richmond, KY
Posted: 01-19-04 09:59am
We're trying to get pregnant. I joined
this site when I was late for my period
and i've learned so much about ways to get
pregnant and i've been having sex more
especially this week since I should be
ovulating. I made sure to have sex a few
days before and during just to try and
make it happen. If i'm not lucky this
month i'll definately be charting starting
next month.
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Guest
Guest
!!!! Posted: 01-20-04 19:47pm
I wish you the best of
luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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jewels25
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2004 Posts: 125
Posted: 01-20-04 21:54pm
My doc says that at six months she will
call me in for a check to see if there are
signs for infertility. I was on bbp for
almost 11 years so it really worries me
that I am not going to get prego any time
soon. Sex every other day though is what
we are trying to do. I am trying the
temp charting too but mine varies so
much... It is crazy.
